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Speaking as one, the majority are decent people but there is a minority who are openly fash and a sadly growing amount who tolerate fash bands cos the riffs are good.

I've been going to metal and adjacent shows and festivals for decades.

Metal fans are everything and everyone. There exists no stereotype that any one fan could fully fit.

• The lawyer with more money than sense.
• The family of 3 with their toddler wearing ear protection.
• The guy who looks like he just got done mucking a horse stall.
• The boomers who will tell you about the first time they saw Ozzy without it even being brought up.
• The smokers and the tokers.
• The guy who just escaped the office and doesn't care what people think of his clothes.
• The visitors who are not really into the music but they love an opener or swore they would see the headliner if they ever got the chance.

For the most part, people are accepting of everyone. There are a few people who are less hospitable. Usually kids who have an idea of the culture that is not instep with reality. Typically they learn, one way or another.

A metal head is the kind of guy I want watching my back. They aren't afraid to get knocked around a little, usually smarter than most, and they have the biggest hearts.

Of course, there are exceptions, but that's the general vibe I get from the metal heads I've met.

As a metal head, it was always fun seeing other bars and clubs in the middle of the night having police and fights outside, while our dainty little metal bar only had that when those people came to our place.

Some people even came for the lack of fights, even if they didn't like the music. Always a brotherly atmosphere welcoming to all strangers.

I think those people like to have fun and they don't take themselves too seriously.

I don't think that my perception of it changed in the last 30 years since I was a teenager.

There's the old joke that metalheads are nice people pretending to be mean, while hippies are mean people pretending to be nice.

I know so many metal heads, that I would have to say: it depends on the type of metal they're into. The one thing they really tend to have in common, though, is they have personalities very much in contrast to the style in which they dress and what you might think hearing the music. All cool people; but at first glance, depending on their preferred style of metal, they can look scary AF.

Based on experience, they tend to be people with a tough exterior but with the kindest hearts.

"Hey, new friends! Cool shirt"

Last year i learned about their running in circles dance. I watched a bunch of videos on it. Now everytime my son goes to a show i need a report on the dancing and random antics.

Metalheads I’ve known 20yrs ago vs now? Still generally lovely, kind and welcoming people. They can look fierce but I’d go to them in a crisis.

My perception is that they are people. I know lots of different people that listen to metal and have nothing else in common.

I listen to some metal among a lot of other music, wouldn't really call myself a metalhead but I have a lot of friends who are

I'm in my 30s, been a lot of metalheads in my friend group since middle or high school, don't really see that changing any time soon. Overall I like metalheads, under the gruff-looking exteriors most of them are big marshmallows, and overall pretty intelligent people.

There's a handful of assholes, racists, some people whose main interest in metal is that they like to be too rough in the mosh pit, etc. but the majority of metalheads I've met hate their guts. And like with all subcultures, fandoms, etc. there are some who are annoying pretentious pricks about it but are essentially harmless.

was never my crowd but I married one so im related by marriage. well and I like tull that had a lot of influence on it. Also in college I endlessly would bug a friend of mine after they won heavy metal band of the year.

In my experience, pretty cool people I happen to be one of them, I will say though, there is a lot of elitism in the metal community.

Used to breathe metal music, not so much these days. But I'd still hang out with any of those people from the old days. A lot of broken souls in that community, but for the most part everyone tries to prop each other up.

A lot of metal heads I’ve known don’t use drugs or alcohol and some of them are vegans.

Metal fans are low-brow angry degenerates. I like them a lot.

I don't listen to metal often but I LOVE going to metal shows.

The metal crowd is mostly full of chill and nice people.

That they're cool people I want to hang out with.

Metal heads are generally kind people that I can get along with easily. Just watch for tattoos around black metal fans

Not a perception as such, but as a metalhead too I wonder what their gateway band was or who they might listen to that I'm unfamiliar with. General intrigue really.

Makes me wonder if those who favour other genres think the same.

Well I like metal but I'm considered a wierdo loner and unlikeable.

They like to wear black clothes.

Not a fan of the screaming but love the instruments

Instrumental violin metal has been my go-to for work music lately

They're fine mostly. Music genres are so diluted nowadays that that person could be listening to Burzum, City Morgue, or Ghost. Three completely different types of people

Good for them

Mostly people who are really into music, which is cool, and are chill. I had a flat mate once who was into metal, chill guy but not great as a flat mate (nothing to do with music, just flat mate stuff). I know some subsets of metal draw in people who are the bad kind of weird, but I haven't (knowingly) met those. TBH I haven't met a metal head in years, though (at least not knowingly).

tough on the outside, soft on the inside.

People who like metal are obsessed with what everyone else thinks about them