[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

The format really didn't lend itself to substantive answers. Only 2 minutes each and 1 minute to respond to each other.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 days ago

Because the alternative is a brossiere.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

Those are all fantastic choices! Rama is one of my favorites, even with the co-authored sequels losing a lot of the majesty that makes the first book so engaging.

If you liked those books, I think you might like Hal Clement's A mission of Gravity, about an expedition to a very high-gravity planet and the fascinating perspectives of the creatures that live there.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago

You know how some people's like having a ridiculously huge truck just to show off to other people that have a ridiculously huge truck? Some gun enthusiasts are like that. It's not uncommon to see novelty guns like this made, sometimes custom or sometimes by a factory. Stuff like a revolver that also shoots shotgun shells or a pistol with two barrels to shoot two shots at once or a bolt-action pistol to shoot the (basically) largest rifle rounds.

I think this happens in any hobby. I'm sure there are bird watchers with $5000 custom hand-ground binocular lenses or something.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago

It is the Prophets' Will for you to hearken to it.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 11 points 6 days ago

Here's a great podcast episode about the design competition and fraught construction of the Sydney Opera House. https://www.pushkin.fm/podcasts/cautionary-tales/a-chorus-of-contempt-at-the-sydney-opera-house

It has also been featured in Star Trek as a hat.

My child intensifies

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago

You're a sea cucumber.

[-] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago

His schlongs is in a jar somewhere. Best that, Jesus!

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Hiya,

My local library summer reading challenge has a few items with which I could use y'all's help.

Read a book with a musical theme.

Read a book outside your comfort zone (I read mostly novels, and mostly sci-fi).

Read a book by an author from a different cultural background. (I'm a white American and I've already read Three Body Problem)

Read a book suggested to you.

I would appreciate any suggestions!

-Pidgin

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Hello ladies (current and former) of Lemmy (current) - I'm curious how your experience of the male gaze has changed as you moved in and out of young-woman-hood.

How has your opinion of being seen changed through this process?

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My parents raised me to always say "yes sir" and "no ma'am", and I automatically say it to service workers and just about anyone with whom I'm not close that I interact with. I noticed recently that I had misgendered a cashier when saying something like "no thank you, ma'am" based on their appearing AFAB, but on a future visit to the store they had added their pronouns (they) to their name tag. I would feel bad if their interaction with me was something they will remember when feeling down. This particular person has a fairly androgynous haircut/look and wears a store uniform, so there's no gender clue there.

I am thinking I need to just stop saying "sir" and "ma'am" altogether, but I like the politeness and I don't know how I would replace it in a gender-neutral way. Is there anything better than just dropping it entirely?

For background I'm a millennial and more than happy to use people's correct pronouns if I know them!

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