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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] Kory@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Actually I feel excited, because Lemmy has sparked a new interest in news aggregators and the fediverse and I'm enjoying my time here a lot.

[โ€“] Acetamide@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I agree, it feels a bit like the internet in the early days, where you can find mindblowing new things just around the corner with a single click

[โ€“] mrmanager@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Yup and no big corps were tracking us.

[โ€“] Kory@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly! And without being called names for asking questions or interacting with people.

[โ€“] blek@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Fully agree, I've been TOO excited since I found out about Lemmy's existence. I can't wait to see how it progresses with so many people joining. :-)

[โ€“] r4tzt4r@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A little bit. What I hate is losing the communities related to my hobbies. Reddit is/was very very helpful for me. Finding new music, finding new games, discussing movies and TV, learning about weird movies or cult shows, sharing my stuff to people that find it cool... It was 11 years of that. I needed that site, so many very helpful posts. I hope whatever comes next is better. For now I'm here, waiting to see what happens.

[โ€“] lhx@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Preach. I get that entirely.

[โ€“] Thanks4Nothing@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I have really been diving deep into a lot of niche hobbies and Redd** had such a great community for them. I have no problem starting over for the sake of justice, but it is going to take a long time to build them up.

[โ€“] fomo_erotic@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined Reddit during the digg exodus. Before digg I was into fark and before fark, something awful.

It's good that things die. it's where new mediums come from. It also keeps the power with the user. It's an important part of the internet life cycle.

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[โ€“] bjwest@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I moved to Reddit when Digg destroyed itself. It wasn't too hard to make the switch, although it did take a bit of getting used to. I imagine it'll be the same this time, or maybe a bit easier, as the format of lemmy.ml is not too different in appearance from Reddit.

[โ€“] milkytoast@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

I'm mostly sad about losing the communites i loved, for which I have not yet found a comarable one on lemmy. r/cars and r/cartalk mostly

[โ€“] supermario182@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Reddit hasn't really been the same for a long time anyways. I liked the feel of Reddit in the old days better, and this kind of has the same vibe

[โ€“] Lemmington@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

So many times in the past few months I would open reddit, stare at the uninteresting front page and close it. Especially the past few years it has taken an astronomical nosedive, and that's coming from someone who joined in 2013 which some consider too late.

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[โ€“] nychtelios@rlyeh.icu 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, totally. But I'm also finding extremely cool Lemmy and the concept behind the fediverse

The thing that's missing here most is the niche communities (I'm talking about like the ended 10 years ago tv shows and people are still posting about them). On the other hand, I noticed while most countries have 1 or 2 communities, my country already has at least 7 for specific locations and people still want to make more so it feels very much like home already

[โ€“] Quintus@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not Reddit but I feel sad for Aaron Swartz. What a monster his creation became. Thankfully Lemmy exists to fill Reddit's place.

[โ€“] thx1138@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

I think Aaron would have appreciated the fediverse.

[โ€“] AbSoluTc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Yes and no. Reddit had become toxic and a shadow of it's former self. It was a good run for 11 years. Hopefull Lemmy can be an alternative. :)

[โ€“] TerraByt3@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, Reddit had a lot of communities that I loved interacting with and finding advice with. I do hope Lemmy gains enough traction to replace Reddit.

[โ€“] thomas@lemmy.douwes.co.uk 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

I hate reddit. But it feels like the library of Alexandria burning down (yea I know). All those google search results and educational subreddits that are shutting down forever, and because they are too small reddit won't force open them again.
A lot are in the pushshift archive, but that cuts of at 2022. Also, it doesn't include a lot of the smaller subreddits.
I have had my PC running 24/7 with multiple VPNs to avoid rate limits downloading as much as I can before the API dies, but with some blackouts moving forward a day I have already missed a few.
Like many others, I would often add "reddit" to the end of my searches to get better results, half the websites on web searches now are either AI generated, copies or are completely AD ridden websites that ask you to turn off your AD blocker.

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[โ€“] SavvyWolf@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

While I hope Lemmy/Kbin takes off (heck, I'd love early internet forums to come back in style) and kicks off a second internet renaissance, the imminent collapse of Reddit legit is giving me anxiety. Hope y'all don't mind if I vent a bit.

Firstly, there are a lot of "niche" communities on Reddit, mostly dedicated to individual games and the like. The kind of thing where fanart, announcements and discussions happen. In the short term, I don't see them surviving the collapse. And if they do, they'll probably move to a not-great platform like Discord or whatever Facebook comes out with.

Secondly, with SEO optimized AI generated garbage topping search results, Reddit has become an important reference when looking for reviews and opinions on things. As well as that, it has become somewhat of an archive of internet culture in a way. With subreddits moving to black out permanently and a push for users shredding their own data, there's a very real chance that all of this content will be lost forever.

[โ€“] animist@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

I think because I have left reddit and returned to it so many times over the past 15 years I was looking for a reason to make it permanent. I'm more relieved than anything else. My religion also teaches me that who you are is a result of all of the actions you have taken in your life, and that we should not associate with those whose actions inflict harm on their own community (meaning spez)

[โ€“] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I just keep thinking to myself, "it's the end of an era"

Reddit has been the only social network I've used for 12 years. I've watched it go through so much change over the years, but it always felt like even at its worst, it showed its users more respect and gave them more control over what content they saw than any other social network out there. I am cautiously optimistic about the future of Lemmy, but it makes me sad to watch RiF and Reddit phase out of my life.

[โ€“] DarkErmac@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit kinda stopped being fun at some point, and I didnโ€™t even realize it until I came here. The lack of doomscrolling potential here is an added bonus.

[โ€“] maporita@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I closed my Facebook account in 2016 and haven't looked back. Hoping I feel the same about Reddit

[โ€“] Kerrangutan@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

A little sad and a lot salty, my main account got suspended by reddit in retaliation for actions taken as a moderator and got totally ignored by members of the mod relations team and their oh so smugly named "anti evil operations" drones.

I'm sad Reddit is no longer the site it was

I'm glad that Spez and the rest of the reddit execs get to see their precious cash-cow die in flames.

[โ€“] dmtalon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ive spent 98% of my time here in Lemmy vs. 2% since last night. I'm not deleting my reddit account just yet, but, overall like what I am seeing here. I'm also just trying to figure everything out here.

There are issues/worries about what happens when an instance goes away, where's that content go? Duplicate/fragmented communities on multiple instances.

I'm more worried about losing the CONTENT that we created on Reddit, etc as a historic/research tool if reddit fails completely. Lot of content with people helping others.

I see/saw a lot of talk about wiping your data before leaving... I'm sure if that happened in larg volumes, they have backups of that content. No idea what legal ramifications there are with restoring them though.

I'm in a wait and see, but w/o RIF I'm gonna be hard pressed to use reddit on my phone, and if old. Goes away that might end it for me.

[โ€“] Sightline@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm more worried about losing the CONTENT that we created on Reddit

There are Reddit JSON dumps, I saw one yesterday.

I'm in a wait and see, but w/o RIF I'm gonna be hard pressed to use reddit on my phone

I'm using Jerboa, it looks pretty good IMO when you set the view to "list".

FYI: A shitload of people started helping with the Lemmy codebase on GitHub, it was awesome seeing the community coming together.

[โ€“] privacyn@feddit.it 1 points 1 year ago

Fuck technofascists

[โ€“] -spam-@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Going to sound sad but I'm a more than a bit bummed.

Outside my family and my job, reddit and the community was a massive social outlet for me. I don't have as much contact with friends any more and being part of some of the communities there made it not so bad.

[โ€“] RatzChatsubo@vlemmy.net 1 points 1 year ago

Not going to lie. This all feels like Google+ to me. The communities and networks are all over the place

[โ€“] saigot@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been trying to jump for a long time now, I used tildes for a while, but it just didn't have enough content I'm interested in. Now it seems lemmy is gaining enough steam to be my primary social media.

Reddit really peaked with the Obama ama. After that it was all downhill, the place grew too quickly to keep its culture.

[โ€“] thx1138@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

You don't have to make a hard flip, I've used this reddit protest to build out my Lemmy setup and put it in front of all my reddit shortcuts!

[โ€“] treagod@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I feel just a bit heartbroken but at the same time I really love the concept of lemmy.

I'm just a little afraid that lemmy is just a short-lived alternative and the people go back because not everything is working perfect right now.

[โ€“] Acetamide@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That's definitely a risk. The main way of avoiding that is to stay active :D

[โ€“] RamesesKnibs@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm a little sad because I met my partner of nearly 10 years on Reddit on that account. I will keep the account because our original DMs are on there and would like to preserve them. Will probably wipe all the content and contributions, and just keep those DMs

[โ€“] nikmis@lemmy.click 1 points 1 year ago

I haven't mourned the loss of social media since I left my myspace account. That was my first love

I do feel some kind of sadness, but I feel... free. Reddit started becoming addictive to me some time ago and I have noticed that Lemmy seems to have less trolls, perverts, power tripping mods and just simply batshit crazy people. I do feel an urge to check out how Reddit is doing, but I'll soon go to a place without a proper internet connection so I think I'll finally be able to cure my Reddit addiction. My experience with Lemmy has been very positive so far.

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