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Mildly Infuriating

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She literally called me at the time of the appointment to tell me she can't see me. She was so apologetic, but was like "I absolutely can treat you, but I'm not allowed by your insurance". Fuck this country.

Update: I went to urgent care. Before leaving home, I called to be sure they would accept my insurance (Aetna). They said yes.. After arriving for my appointment, they told me they do not accept my insurance. I will simply leave without paying.

Final Update: I can understand that that differences in physical biology demand different attention. That's not what I'm complaining about. It's the way it's set up. I was told that at my appointment. Why not just refer me to a specialist? The website could've even just referred me to urgent care (yes, my insurance requires a primary care physician's referral for urgent care, according to the urgent care facility). But, no, their goal is to obfuscate and irritate until the patient gives you and pays out-of-pocket.

I was able to receive care at a cost I could not afford. I won't discuss what I had to do to "find" the money to pay for care and prescriptions. That being said, the condition I was diagnosed with was more serious than a simple infection, and I'm glad that I saw a doctor. I need further treatment and just hope I can get insurance to cover any of it.

If you're an American reading this, please consider ways to get involved in organizing in support of Medicare For All in your community. Here is one resource I have found. We don't need to live like this. We deserve better. Stay safe and healthy, friends.

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[–] guyman@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sounds like discrimination based on sex. A clear violation of the Civil Rights act of 1964.

[–] Landrin201@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Car insurance companies are literally allowed to discriminate by sex and will openly tell you that they do so, why would health insurance be different?

[–] UniquesNotUseful@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Civil Rights Act of 1964 prohibits different treatment of insured persons on the basis of their sex in connection with pension funds. This was a supreme court ruling, so kind of linked but not quite.

https://www.jstor.org/stable/253100

Interestingly, in UK and EU it became illegal to discriminate by sex for car insurance from about 2012, without very careful use of data - which doesn't happen. It is allowed to be linked on things like jobs though.

[–] STUPIDVIPGUY@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

newsflash: US never cared about civil rights and despite it being "law" it gets regularly ignored on an institutional scale

[–] average650@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It might be, but some health related coverage is legitimately divided along sex lines. I don't know what the answer is, but it might not be so simple.

Stupid either way though.

[–] 666dollarfootlong@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Different genitals. But all genders have bladders so why the hell wouldn't the insurance just cover it for everyone

[–] average650@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That's more than mildly infuriating....

[–] dan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you're just supposed to die now...

[–] throwaway38575061@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don't believe I can afford to, though. 😓

[–] smokinjoe@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I think most everyone knows this would have to be in the USA.

Sorry OP, I really hope those greedy assholes just made some shitty mistake.

[–] goldenbug@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am sorry this is happening to you. I cannot even phantom why this is the case, anyone could please explain to me why UTIs are not covered for men?

[–] borkcorkedforks@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

There is a documented thing insurance companies have started doing where they deny claims until you appeal them. AI was being used somehow to determine which cases.

[–] cedarmesa@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] tigaente@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's disgusting if you ask me.

Also, you have to be 18+ for getting a contraception appointment. I guess teens in the US are also having sex like teens in other parts of the world and would very much need access to contraceptives, right?

[–] throwaway38575061@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Correct, they sure are. And abortion rights are under attack. Those teens won't even have a chance.

[–] verity_kindle@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, they'll have to be responsible and only have sex using condoms. Or keep their legs shut.

[–] max@feddit.nl 1 points 1 year ago

You can be as responsible as you want, but condoms don’t have a 100% success rate.

[–] BurnTheRight@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

There is a cause and there is a solution for our disgusting system.

Conservatives (including neo-liberals) serve corporations, not citizens. If we can marginalize conservatives (including neo-liberals), then we can have nice things like the other 31 developed nations on earth.

This cannot improve while conservatives (including neo-liberals) have power in our nation's government. Period.

[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just tell them you identify as female. They won't be able to say shit unless they start throwing religion at you.

[–] Sunrosa@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Gotta be careful doing this. It gives them more ammunition behind the vitriol of transgender people.

[–] TskUghPfftUhh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He shouldn't have to pretend to be part of a minority group in order to be treated for something.

[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

It works for getting jobs too!

[–] Raphael@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

Health care is communism!