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Would you uproot your life, leaving behind your family, your job etc if you dont like the weather in a country.

(Obviously theres always more than one advantage of moving someplace but to build a life somewhere, would weather be top 3 factors in choosing where to live).

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[–] Shady_Shiroe@lemm.ee 48 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I would love to leave the south for cooler climates but I have too much family here so heat stroke it is.

[–] TenderfootGungi@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Those of us in the north want to move south so we can stay active for 6 more months.

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[–] Scrof@sopuli.xyz 45 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

I think absolutely yes. I'd give up a lot to move to Finland or some shit just because the weather there sounds like haven to me. I live in the Middle East and it's not as much the heat that kills me (it's "only" a factor for about a third of a year and it sucks too of course) its the goddamn dust storms, I'm so sensitive to these things. I still have no idea why some people like living in deserts under a scorching Sun, with all the sand and dust in the air, it's dreadful, not to mention the nature is super boring without proper fields, forests and rivers and stuff.

[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 11 months ago

Saaame, tho Finland sounds too extreme.

[–] sndrtj@feddit.nl 6 points 11 months ago

Please realize Northern European winters are... dark. It's not the cold that matters much, it's the darkness for months on end that can be seriously detrimental to mental health if you're not used to it.

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[–] MrPoopyButthole@lemm.ee 26 points 11 months ago (2 children)

It's a great reason. Especially with climate change.

I met someone the other day that said they moved from Portland to Cincinnati because of their climate change concerns.

Over the next 50 years, we're going to see MILLIONS of people in the U.S. moving for the same reasons.

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[–] haohao@lemm.ee 22 points 11 months ago (9 children)

I'm going to move next year, and the weather definitely is one of the reasons (not the main reason though). At least half of the year the temperature here is above 30°c, 60%+ humidity and basically no wind. I somewhat got used to it after a decade here, but I'm sure I'll spend more time outside when I move away.

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I don't get why a condition like that is still called "good weather".

[–] Valmond@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If it's chill at night then it can be quite nice, if it's 23°C at night you feel like you are dying all the summer.

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[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 22 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Move sooner than later, before folks catch on that it isn't getting colder

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[–] Sternout@feddit.de 22 points 11 months ago (3 children)

You're talking about your local climate, not weather, which can change any day

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[–] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago

I moved from a town where it was hard to breathe because of the nearby toxic factories. During the winter, we'd have acid rain.

I now live in the Pacific Northwest. Housing is crazy expensive. Everyone wants to live here.

But my quality of living improved dramatically. No more being sick for 2-3 weeks a year. I owned a car that required yearly repairs because of how f'd up the roads were. I sold that because public transportation is so good. I go on hikes. Food diversity is better. Everyone is pleasant to talk to. A crazy homeless man apologized for yelling too much and a nice old lady walked him to get a sandwich. The biggest drama in my neighborhood is someone's tomatoes growing too wild and is encroaching into another neighbor's vegetables. I work remotely, and my wife found a job here, and we are paid significantly higher than before to compensate for the expenses.

Even though I'm paying a shitton for a small place that would have been a mansion in my old hick town, my quality of living skyrocketed.

It's definitely worth it. And if you're too concerned about the cost of living, try living here for a year. Don't be sticker shocked.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 19 points 11 months ago (1 children)

When I was little, we had a saying, "go to Heaven for the climate, go to Hell for the people."

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[–] LongPigFlavor@lemmy.ml 17 points 11 months ago

Yes, especially if it's likely to worsen over the years due to worsening climate change.

[–] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Do you think bad weather is a good reason for moving?

I'm probably not your target demographic (I live in a campervan) but I move regularly to follow mild weather.

[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 11 months ago

Like a bird migrating depending on the weather! Love it

[–] orca@orcas.enjoying.yachts 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

I live in Florida and want out for a multitude of reasons, the heat and weather being one of the main ones. You can’t enjoy anything outdoors when the humidity is so bad you’re instantly sweating when you walk outside and everything you own has condensation on it. I don’t know why people stay here. I don’t mind heat but this is a hellscape.

I’ve spent a lot of summers here and this has easily been the worst of them all. It’s much hotter than previous.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I got out of Florida in 2022 after Sally tore the roof off my house and insurance companies dropped and picked me up so I wouldn't sue them for not covering the roof. I got the roof replaced and left only friends behind. I don't blame you one bit. All my tools have a layer of rust on them from constantly being wet.

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[–] guyrocket@kbin.social 12 points 11 months ago

Yes, but I'm in a pretty good spot now so it is in theory, not reality.

I think with global warming starting to have worse and worse effects that we will see more and more climate refugees moving around. A couple of my neighbors are planning to move to FL, which seems crazy to me.

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 12 points 11 months ago

Any reason that's important to you to warrant the costs and downsides of moving is a reason that's obviously good enough.

[–] clark@midwest.social 12 points 11 months ago

If you feel that the weather is affecting your day-to-day life for the worse, absolutely. You are not obligated to stay for family or for a job. Prioritise your health, you can always visit relatives.

[–] TrismegistusMx@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

You'd better take weather into consideration. Places like Florida are about to become uninsurable.

[–] ExLisper@linux.community 12 points 11 months ago

Weather is a way better reason to move than family or job are to stay.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 11 months ago

I grew up in a region with extreme hot and extreme cold. After living many years in a milder climate, I think my family are all nuts for staying. Not the climate asshole for wanting to enjoy the outdoors.

[–] lewsir@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Yes. It's actually the main factor in why I'd like to move from where I am currently. It's unbearably hot, and every time a hurricane forms, it's basically pointing towards my house. I'm going somewhere further north.

[–] dingus@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

Lmao your story is the opposite of mine. I moved several years back because I was tired of being in a dark winter hellscape for half the year.

But I mean I suppose winter was somewhat tolerable. Alternatively, I could never imagine living in wildfire land and constantly worrying about whether or not my place is going to burn down.

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[–] OldFartPhil@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago

Sure, why not? Everyone has their own reasons for moving and climate contributes to an area's quality of life.

When I moved from Southern California to the Pacific Northwest, the benign climate here was a factor. Didn't want to live somewhere where it was blazing hot every day for months, where it was a steam bath all summer or where I had to shovel snow every winter.

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 10 points 11 months ago

A bad neighbor is a good reason for moving, I don't see why bad weather wouldn't be.

[–] EmotionalSupportLancet@hexbear.net 9 points 11 months ago

if the weather is making you unhappy on a regular basis, I don’t see why that isn’t a valid reason to make moving away a goal.

With the ongoing climate catastrophe, it’s probably prudent to take such factors into account.

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 9 points 11 months ago

Weather wasn't the only reason I moved from New Jersey to California, but it was one of the top three. Seasonal depression is a real thing and I definitely had it.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 8 points 11 months ago

I’d say generally no because for most people it’s a relatively small factor in what makes them happy. But if for you it’s a big thing, it could be worth considering.

Just be sure to be clear eyed about what will or won’t make you happy. I think a lot of dissatisfied people find excuses to pin their feelings on that may not be the real cause of their problem. You don’t want to move across the world only to realize weather wasn’t the problem all along. Also, if you’ve never moved long distances before, I’ve noticed many people underestimate the benefits of the connections they have with family, friends, and community. I know I did, and it can take a long time to rebuild those things.

[–] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 8 points 11 months ago

Honestly as the climate gets worse, I think this will be a lot more common.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 months ago

Yes! Especially now that climate change is starting to have a serious impact. If it family truely loves me, they'll come visit.

[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 8 points 11 months ago

I moved to get supposed better and warmer weather. Can't tell you how much I despise summers now. The heat is relentless and I'll be escaping back to "bad" weather whenever possible.

[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[–] kglitch@kglitch.social 9 points 11 months ago

Move now, beat the rush.

[–] Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 6 points 11 months ago

I'd be packed and gone before you finished typing that sentence.

[–] 520@kbin.social 7 points 11 months ago (7 children)

I did, and I really haven't regretted it for a second.

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[–] ugo@feddit.it 7 points 11 months ago

It absolutely is a good reason, and I did to escape the heat.

[–] kraftpudding@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I think the weather where I live now is not bad enough to move as the only reason, but if I was looking to relocate anyways I would for sure take it into account. I do not well in heat, especially humid heat, but cold doesn't bother me that much. So somewhere north would be great.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

I hated the heat in my home country, so I asked my employer to relocate me. Unfortunately they moved me to a place where the summers are even worse. lol. But at least the rest of the year is cooler than back home where it’s hot all year round.

[–] _xDEADBEEF@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Yes, but I'm biased as I've considered leaving the UK just because I can't stand the weather for about 1/2 of the year. The grey and wet really gets to me

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[–] TheLowestStone@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

I moved from one corner of the mainland US to the opposite for 3 reasons:

  1. My toxic family was densely located in/around my hometown.
  2. I hated the weather.
  3. I lived in a relatively rural area and wanted to live in a city.

I could have accomplished 1 and 3 without moving thousands of miles away. I chose to move where did mostly because of the weather.

[–] daddyjones@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago (5 children)

I absolutely would. If it were a realistic option I'd mine my family to somewhere like Scotland, Iceland, Norway or Canada to get away from the unpleasantly hot summers we have here (relatively speaking - most people would probably not find it that hot.)

On the other hand, I'm pretty sure my wife would happily move to the Mediterranean for more heat...

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