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Sorry for the potentially controversial question: is it normal for less attractive people to settle down with partners they don't find physically attractive? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 months ago by RebiJes@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] TheButtonJustSpins@infosec.pub 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

They're not attractive to you. Everyone is attractive to someone.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee -3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Mentally, definitely. But we're talking about physically here. Physical attractiveness is pretty much the same across all humans, or rather what isn't attractive. Extreme mutilations and similar for example.

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Physical attractiveness is pretty much the same across all humans,

I take your point, and I used to believe that, but I learned my view was pretty narrow, compared to the options/tastes expressed by the diverse people I've met, since.

[–] TheButtonJustSpins@infosec.pub 6 points 3 months ago

Nah, you grossly underestimate the kink community.