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What's your most unpopular opinion about music ? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 months ago by Titou@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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For me : Trippie Redd's "!" Is actually a great album

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

I'll go a step further:

You have to separate the art from the artist because there is not a single artist I've ever encountered who wasn't some kind of fucking trashhole of a person.

Artists spent their lives on being artists, not developing good interpersonal skills or understanding politics or philosophy.

Beleiving an artist is a "good person" is just setting yourself up for disappointment. Start out assuming they suck dogshit and you usually end up being right.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think it's reasonable to draw some lines that, when crossed, you'll choose to disengage from their art.

The musician doesn't have to be a saint. But if I find out they, I don't know, love eating live puppies, I'm going to prefer spending my time and attention elsewhere.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I agree, but I like to start from a position of "this person probably sucks" because then I'm never disappointed.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 4 points 3 months ago

This is a fair position to take.

I tend to avoid listening to interviews with bands I like in case they're terrible.

Though weirdly I'll chat with folks at merch tables.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 3 points 3 months ago

Sam from Future Islands is a pretty dope guy.

[–] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 months ago

Agreed. Show me a flawless human being, and I'll show you someone who doesn't have anything interesting to share with the world.