ScoffingLizard

joined 1 month ago

It costs $15000 to have the baby in US. I guess now parents only owe $14000 here.

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

That's an incredible difference. Makes you wonder just how many of us could have done much more if people were educated properly.

I'll look i to DietPi and check out the CLI tools. Thanks!

 

I was planning to set transcoding on the M.2 by using a Pi M.2 Hat board. However, since the M.2 is already there, should I just use it to run the OS and downloads, too, or just use it as a transcoding consumable and media drive? This Pi 5 has 16Gb of RAM, so it might handle every bit of the transcoding regardless, but I have not tested it. I'm also concerned about latency between the main Pi board and the hat, connected with a flexible circuit board cable.

Also, anyone have issues with media storage on external drive when using Plex/media servers?

Equipment has been ordered but has not been delivered yet. Should come the next few days.

Congrats and good luck!

This is becoming a huge problem for me.

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

So you still wanted the kids? It didn't cause you to hesitate? I knew very early that I wouldn't have kids. Could be because my mother told us that kids ruin your life, though.

This is me every weekend.

 

When I was a kid, I was punished excessively. My diagnosis occurred when I was 25. In the 1980s, I got paddled every day at school and was punished constantly. It made me feel rejected, leading to rejection sensitivity dysphoria. By the time I was 9, I decided life was not worth living and have not changed my mind at 45 years old. I would never have a child to suffer the way I did. I still feel like nobody wants me around. My mental health issues have severely impacted my quality of life. I'm just now figuring out that this might be why I have never felt my clock tick, or thought for even a second of my life that I wanted kids.

Has this happened to anyone else? I wonder how many in this forum might have decided against parenthood due to ADHD effects without realizing it.

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Could be a trap though, knowing how bad things are.

I never thought about that, but you're right. I was wondering why that kept happening.

The tech is so opressive. My ipod is my favorite toy because I can listen to music and it doesn't track me and sell my info.

It's sensitivity to rejection that I think comes from being punished way more than normal kids due to "bad behavior." You'd think after you beat a kid 100 times and it doesn't work that maybe there might be another avenue they could consider. Now they want to say ADHD kids are overdiagnosed, and those excessive punishments will probably start happening like it did in the 1980s before people knew what ADHD was.

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