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What is everyone's opinion on how ADHD affects people's desire to have kids? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 1 day ago by ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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When I was a kid, I was punished excessively. My diagnosis occurred when I was 25. In the 1980s, I got paddled every day at school and was punished constantly. It made me feel rejected, leading to rejection sensitivity dysphoria. By the time I was 9, I decided life was not worth living and have not changed my mind at 45 years old. I would never have a child to suffer the way I did. I still feel like nobody wants me around. My mental health issues have severely impacted my quality of life. I'm just now figuring out that this might be why I have never felt my clock tick, or thought for even a second of my life that I wanted kids.

Has this happened to anyone else? I wonder how many in this forum might have decided against parenthood due to ADHD effects without realizing it.

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[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

That's an incredible difference. Makes you wonder just how many of us could have done much more if people were educated properly.

[–] Wojwo@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago

Yeah, I lucked out and got my dad's "who the fuck are you to tell me who I am?" genes. So I rebelled by succeeding. And then scored another huge lucky win by bumping into my wife at a party and then working on her for 3 years to finally admit that she loved me. Those kids are going to have amazing lives and it's 99 percent their mom being fantastic.