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Most of the time when people say they have an unpopular opinion, it turns out it's actually pretty popular.

Do you have some that's really unpopular and most likely will get you downvoted?

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[โ€“] festus@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I greatly despise all facial hair.

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[โ€“] rbesfe@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Dismissing social norms because they're "only social constructs" is ridiculous, because all social constructs are a product of our biological brains. Gender norms exist because sex chromosomes affect brain chemistry, not because some evil global patriarchy cabal in 200,000 B.C decided they should.

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[โ€“] beto@lemmy.studio 20 points 1 year ago (41 children)

Everyone should be vegan. It's great for your health, for the environment, and more importantly, it would save more than a trillion (yes, with a T) lives every year.

In a hundred years we'll look back and be ashamed of what we did to animals.

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[โ€“] BubblyMango@lemmy.wtf 20 points 1 year ago (18 children)

Lemmy will die out without monotization such as every 6th post being an ad.

I love it but feel like libre projects that have constant maintenance costs beyond developers' time need to find ways to become mostly self sustainable without relying on donations. I also dont mind less than 20% of the posts being ads.

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[โ€“] kabat@programming.dev 19 points 1 year ago (18 children)

I am against a law allowing LGBTQ couples to adopt children in my country (Poland). I am not in any way against it as a general idea, but Polish society is full of full-on bigots and these kids would be subject to so much bullying, it's really against their best interest.

The argument a lot of people raise "if we start doing it then people will get used to it" doesn't work for me, because why should these children be victims of war that is not even theirs to fight? The whole thing makes me sick.

I've been downvoted for this opinion by both sides on Reddit.

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[โ€“] danielton@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (24 children)

I'm American, and I believe both sides raise valid points and both sides have problems. The polarization on both sides and refusal to listen to the other side is what is destroying this country politically.

The last presidential race, we got an egotistical maniac and a guy who is too senile to know where he is or how to form a sentence. This is the best we can do?

I am NOT saying both sides are the same.

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[โ€“] cizra@lemm.ee 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Most of modern music sounds horrible. Elevators and shopping malls would be better off silent than blasting this noisome garbage.

There are exceptions - there totally are modern composers creating quality stuff. It's just not played anywhere in public places, for some reason.

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[โ€“] charonn0@startrek.website 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (13 children)

Nuking Japan was in proportion and in service to the United States' legitimate military objectives.

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[โ€“] monotrox@discuss.tchncs.de 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Consuming drugs should not be illegal. Doesnt matter what effect the drug has, punishing the consumer does no good for anyone.

Selling drugs can and should in some cases be illegal though

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[โ€“] poudlardo@jlai.lu 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I won't say anything without my lawyer sir.

No seriously these kind of posts annoys me as most people will mostly say secretly popular opinion. A true unpopular opinion could get you potential trouble with 1/ online users 2/ the law

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[โ€“] mub@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (23 children)

Except where actual safety is concerned, all information should be public. That means Individuals, businesses, authorities, governments, etc, should not be able to hold any information privately, it should all be freely available to everyone. There only private information is what you can hold in your head.

Anyone who thinks about this idea for more than 30 seconds decides it is a really bad idea. I honestly believe that true information freedom will also free the human race, and that is the unpopular part. Everyone seemed to think I'm naive but people are just frightened kids and secrets are their first line of defense.

[โ€“] Kevnyon@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Anyone who thinks about this idea for more than 30 seconds decides it is a really bad idea

That's because of all the problems your idea would cause. Identity theft would run rampant, stalking would become easier than ever before, tracking people down would just be one search, etc. I mean you truly did bring up an unpopular opinion, I'll give you that.

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[โ€“] Karlos_Cantana@sopuli.xyz 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I believe in freedom. As long as my actions don't hurt someone else physically or financially, then leave me alone. As long as your actions don't hurt someone else physically or financially, then do whatever the hell you want. I also have the freedom to tell you you're stupid for doing what you're doing. You have the freedom to tell me I'm stupid for doing what I'm doing.

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[โ€“] simple@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't have anything that important to say but I will say that Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery is one of the worst movies I've seen this decade and somehow it has an RT rating of over 90% for both critics and audiences.

Imagine a murder mystery that takes over half the movie's runtime for the murder to happen, a script that sounds AI generated, a plot centered around a plot point that makes literally no sense, and probably the stupidest ending I've ever seen in a movie. Yet every time someone talks about that movie online goes on about how fun it was, I swear everyone has to be a bot because I can't believe that many people liked this hack of a movie.

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[โ€“] jellyka@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (16 children)

Pasta can be desserts.

I make a delicious Mac and chocolate, but can get very few people to try it :(

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[โ€“] random_character_a@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just one?

Social media is detrimental to individuals and society.

People in the net often agree, put people irl look at me like I'm the village idiot spouting conspiracy theories.

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[โ€“] Steeve@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (21 children)

People here don't know anything about tech regulation or privacy even though they pretend to and almost every criticism I see is just straight up wrong. And I'm a data engineer who works in tech focused on privacy.

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[โ€“] CycloneWolf@midwest.social 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't care if it has the same framerate as traditional animation, if your CGI movie is less than 30 fps it looks cheap and gives me a headache.

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[โ€“] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago (5 children)

The Star Wars prequels hold up better than the original trilogy.

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[โ€“] Today@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We could reduce a lot of issues if you had to do a calculus problem to get an erection.

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[โ€“] qevlarr@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Remember to sort by controversial. Top comments are always going to be the popular opinions.

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[โ€“] zephyrvs@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Most of our historical narratives were invented by a few Western elites (nobility, priests, scholars) about 400-450 years ago.

(Basically Fomenko's New chronology.)

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