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Not the first time this has happened either, here's another similar case in Atlanta: https://abcnews.go.com/US/mother-boy-killed-hit-run-driver-probation-community/story?id=14158040

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[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 133 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

The thing is, once car-centrism is established and normalized, it's so hard to explain to people what the real problem is. Clearly the kid did a stupid thing and ran into the road when it shouldn't. Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

But somehow the thought never occurs to people that kids (and adults) will always be stupid and we shouldn't strive to make a world where nobody makes mistakes. We should strive to make a world where making mistakes doesn't kill you.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 51 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

EDIT: Leaving this up for clarity, but I did in fact read the wrong link from the post. The above commenter is correct. Carry on and have a good day.

Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

I hate to break it to you, but:

Jerry Guy, the man who hit the family and never stopped, reportedly admitted drinking "a little" alcohol earlier in the day. He also admitted to being on painkillers and being partially blind in one eye.

Guy had been convicted of two previous hit and run accidents. He pleaded guilty to the hit and run that took A.J.'s life and served six months in jail.

In a world without cars this man wouldn’t have killed a child with his decisions. But this is still gross negligence, especially the multiple hit-and-run charges.

I do agree that if anything this is a great case for pushing public transit and eliminating car centrism. But to not stop/pull over, multiple times, is its own level of selfishness.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I agree that "intentions" is a very weak way to put it, but there's nothing indicating this driver did anything wrong either. It's horrendous that the parents got charged, but the child "went between crosswalks", which I take to mean going diagonally at an intersection. It's plausible that the driver was doing everything right by traffic law and didn't have enough time to react.

(Note that the case Broadfern quoted is a different one, I guess to illustrate the point that "intentions" are beyond the point.)

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[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

When I was 10 my parents never let me out unsupervised and we didn’t even live near a busy road

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[–] JSocial@lemmy.dbzer0.com 56 points 1 day ago (14 children)

there is no evidence of speeding or wrongdoing on the part of the driver, therefore no charges have been filed.

I feel like Atlanta law enforcement might need a refresher on what "wrongdoing" means.

[–] gabriel@col.social 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

They are being real cagey with the deets about the driver. 😒

[–] alk@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This was in Gastonia North Carolina

Edit: just saw the 2nd link, I am an idiot

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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I have watched children be bussed across a stroad rather than making it safe for kids to cross

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

more than one place i've lived at had a busy road be the 'line' separating bus vs walk to school. where i am now some literally get bussed across the road and then another block to the school, while some who live up to a mile away on the 'same side' of that road as the school get to walk.

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[–] PedestrianError@towns.gay 7 points 1 day ago

@Semi_Hemi_Demigod @HiddenLayer555 And sadly many US residents including those employed as traffic engineers or school facilities planners and transportation officials don't see that as unusual or inappropriate.

[–] Posadas@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago

WhY DOn'T kiDs PLAY OUtdiDe AnymOre!!!!

[–] anti_antidote@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 day ago

That's fucked up.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 day ago (7 children)

That 76 year old man will live with his choice to drive at age 76 for the rest of his life.

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Which, for a man in North Carolina, will on average be -4 years

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[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I read it. I can't believe there were even charges against her. This is the second round of court as she was given the option of an offer to retrial. Which is extremely unorthodox.

She and her kids were crossing a street at a non crosswalk at night. A driver who had been drinking hit them (her, her daughter, and her son) and her son lost his life. Driver took off. Driver served 6 mo.

The crosswalk closest to her was 1/3 mile away, her house was just across the street from the bus stop.

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