10-15% IF you went above and beyond or performed particularly well. It's a tip, I am not your employer. I used to be a huge tipper until I realized just how fucked that whole system is. Also, NEVER PRE-TIP. That is insane!
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Pre-tip? I think that's called a bribe
Complain all you want, but not tipping is straight up taking money from someone who is getting paid $5 an hour. Complain to ownership, write your congressman and state legislators, but not tipping only punishes someone who is barely scrapping by.
Its unfortunately a catch 22 though because continuing to tip kinda enables it to keep happening if everyone stopped tipping then places would likely have to pay a decent wage in order to get people to work as even if you’re extremely desperate for money its still not really worth it to work for tipped minimum wage with no tips also im not sure if it applies to all places but if your compensation + tips falls below the federal minimim wage the company must pay you the difference if I am not mistaken
yeah I basically stopped going to restaurants because is screwed either way. It actually used to be something we would do but the norm became wierd and like so many things nowadays it became just drop out of participation.
Yeah, I'm not defending tipping in the US, but not tipping is only screwing over the server. You don't end up working at a restaurant because you love it, you are there because your life is a mess and it's closest thing you can get to a stable job. If you don't want to tip, then don't go out to eat.
Back in October i had a guy "leave a tip" that said "Kamala bullshit" because he was mad his double of jack and coke cost $8. I don't set the prices, i also think it's bullshit, but i was weeknight bartending because I couldnt find any other job.
Employer is obligated to make up the difference so that perosn gets at least min wage.
So this statement is factually incorrect
Maybe the restaurants should pay their employees so customers don't have to pay them? I know it's a radical thought.
Honestly it should be both. Restaurants should pay minimum wage at the very least and then customers should be able to tip if they want. I have no issue tipping if the server did a good job. However, I'm not going to tip bad service.
I don't know. I don't think people who work as servers can affect if the food is bad, or if kitchen messes up stuff... They just take your order and get your food. I'm not sure why they should also act like they like you, and you are their favorite person in the world when you come into the restaurant... :)
I know you didn't say any of that and with good service, thats maybe not what you meant. Just wanted to say my own opinion about service... I guess I don't expect them to be fake and I don't like it if they are.
I can see where you are at. I mean if a server is good then im more likely to be a repeat customer so its something the owner should take into account. Maybe the whole thing should be flipped on its head and it should be treated like a sales role and they get a percent of sales.
I'm not going to be a dick to them. I know they can't control what happens in the kitchen or other customers.
What I care most about is if they are reasonably attentive and nice to talk to. They don't need to be to crazy but they also should care about my experience somewhat. Typically I tip around 15% but if the service is really bad I'll go lower and if I feel they did exceptionally I'll complement them and leave something closer to a 20% tip
Avoid joints that's "require" tipping.
Deny the parasite profit.
Tip 1% whenever they dont offer a realistic choice
This is clearly fake, right?
I know tipping culture is extreme, but I've never seen 100%. I don't think this is real.
I can't find the original image, it's just been reshared dozens of times on Xitter, Threads, Facebook and Reddit, but nobody is adding context or naming and shaming.
So yeah, probably just ragebait.
It is normal to leave a 10-20% tip for certain jobs. However, this is just insane. I would probably lose my shit if I was prompted to leave a 100% tip. That's completely nuts.
Where was this taken? I want to avoid it as much as possible.
Back when 15% was considered standard I liked tipping closer to 30%, but as a direct result of the push to try to make 15% seem low I no longer tip more than 15%.
All you are doing is punishing some poor server who has no control of the price. The owner who is actually fucking both you and the staff over is unaffected.
My tipping follows the inverse of how much I am paying for the product. If the product is well priced and the service was good I have been known to tip 100% for excellent service. Now that everything is nearly double the cost of what it used to be I am more inclined to tip 50 cents to a dollar max.
They should be paying exceptionally well for what they are charging, but we know that isn't the case. I don't have unlimited wealth to spend either, fuck me for being poor and wanting some comfort "restaurant" food occasionally.
The food prices went up 20% so my logic is if I continue to tip the same % the waiters should still make more money. Increasing the food prices and also doubling the tip is just double dipping. My work isn’t paying me 20% more every year so I can’t be paying for everyone’s inflation.
That's an immediate $0.
Custom: 0% HAHAFUCKYOU
Custom: -100%
Infinite money glitch
Custom: 0%
Every time.
If they give me the No Tip option, I usually tip a little bit. But fuck off with this idea that you should be tipped. It helps no one.
100% you only receive a thank you?
Bastards
It’s fake rage bait you have fallen for
It may be but coming from the USA I don't doubt, my European mind is not able to understand that
30% is soso? Go fuck yourselves.
Isn't 10% the usual tip amount?
It was 30 years ago, but the tipping percentage has been subject to inflation for some reason right alongside the cost of the service.
Feels like an intentional double dip as a fuck you to me.
Yeah, I figured so. My knowledge on American tipping culture is based on 90s movies.
The reason is that minimum wage has been stagnant for the last 20 years. Servers are still getting paid $5 an hour plus their tips.
America seems to be a bit crazy.
Pretty sure 0%-10% is standard in the UK. Though a lot of those cheeky service charges are around 12.5
Uh...15% is. Or maybe 20% at a sit down restaurant.
15% has been the standard for many decades, and even that is supposed to be optional.
30%: underpaid
40%: immorally underpaid
50%; criminally underpaid
100%: Les Miserables
I'm not even paying the bill at that point.
ok
I've actually seen 2 recent practices that I hate more than this. While this is frustrating, at least you can input a custom tip. I've also seen them where they show 3 different dollar amounts that don't indicate percentage but doing the math, it's definitely way over the usual 20%. Then there's the one I hate the most which I keep seeing at places where you don't usually tip. You go to pay with your card and the little transaction/card machine shows different tip amounts, the default of which is already set. If you don't want to leave a tip, you have to figure out which button to push to do so. They're all different and it can be very confusing. I even saw one where each option was labeled in correlation with a button on the screen, except that they didn't match up. And what do you do then? Ask the person at the register how not to tip them?
[to cashier] "excuse me, ma'am, i can't seem to find the button to not leave a tip. can you show me where it is?"
I enjoy quietly asking, "do these tips actually go to you?"
I've gotten a discreet "no" headshake more than a few times. Then you can feel justified taking however long you want to select zero.
I leave a Google review for places that have shitty tipping practices.
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soso is the same sound as a word that means breasts in my mother tongue.
Could be worth it under the best of circumstances.
"How much will you tip?
"TITS!"
Beats just the tip.
“soso” 😂 I’m laughing but it’s not funny
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