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The malnourished and badly bruised son of a parenting advice YouTuber politely asks a neighbor to take him to the nearest police station in newly released video from the day his mother and her business partner were arrested on child abuse charges in southern Utah.

The 12-year-old son of Ruby Franke, a mother of six who dispensed advice to millions via a popular YouTube channel, had escaped through a window and approached several nearby homes until someone answered the door, according to documents released Friday by the Washington County Attorney’s office. 

Crime scene photos, body camera video and interrogation tapes were released a month after Franke and business partner Jodi Hildebrandt, a mental health counselor, were each sentenced to up to 30 years in prison. A police investigation determined religious extremism motivated the women to inflict horrific abuse on Franke’s children, Washington County Attorney Eric Clarke announced Friday.

“The women appeared to fully believe that the abuse they inflicted was necessary to teach the children how to properly repent for imagined ‘sins’ and to cast the evil spirits out of their bodies,” Clarke said.

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[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 145 points 3 months ago

The boy later told investigators that Hildebrandt had used rope to bind his arms and his feet to weights on the ground. She used a mixture of cayenne pepper and honey to dress his wounds, according to the police report.

In handwritten journal entries also released Friday, Franke chronicles months of daily abuse that included starving her son and 9-year-old daughter, forcing them to work for hours in the summer heat and isolating them from the outside world. The women often made the kids sleep on hard floors and sometimes locked them in a concrete bunker in Hildebrandt’s basement.

In a July 2023 entry titled “Big day for evil,” she describes holding the boy’s head under water and closing off his mouth and nose with her hands.

Body camera video shows officers entering Hildebrandt’s house and detaining her on the couch while others scour the winding hallways in search of the young girl. They quickly discover a child with a buzzcut sitting cross-legged in a dark, empty closet. After hours of sitting with the girl and feeding her pizza, police coax her out.

Wtf, i can't imagine being raised like this 😭

[-] nkat2112@sh.itjust.works 105 points 3 months ago

Religion as the basis for the justification of the suffering of children...

Is reason alone to avoid it.

My heart aches for the 12-year old boy and his siblings. I feel so bad for them. I hope they are getting the care they need.

[-] VerdantSporeSeasoning@lemmy.ca 48 points 3 months ago

Friendly reminder to everyone that the rest of the world has signed on the United Nation's Connvention on the Rights of the Child; the US doesn't like that it could prevent children from being spanked, because God wants us to spank our children (spare the rod, spoil the child).

Religion is often a basis for the suffering of children.

[-] anarchy79@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

The US doesn't like the idea of taking responsibility for its actions ever.

[-] leftzero@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 3 months ago

the US doesn't like that it could prevent children from being spanked

There's that, but mostly some states don't want minors to be exempt from the death penalty or life imprisonment, which would be a consequence of ratification.

(Also, the Venn diagram of those states and the ones where children can be married but can't get a divorce due to lacking standing in court, another consequence of non-ratification, is probably a circle.)

Religion is a horrible cultural disease that causes unmeasurable harm, sure, but the USA has a well established tradition of treating children as subhuman and brutally abusing them in a vast variety of ways, many of which aren't directly linked to religion.

[-] joel_feila@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

Don't forget they don't want child marriages to end either

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[-] tacosanonymous@lemm.ee 32 points 3 months ago

And zero self reflection. They never point their hyper-critical eyes towards a mirror.

[-] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 18 points 3 months ago

Oh they do, but their flaws are human foibles, not being posessed by a demon.

They're self-centered pieces of shit that use double standards.

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[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 52 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

For anyone that's interested in a deep dive into what kind of shit was going on here, John Dehlin has covered this pretty extensively on his Mormon Stories podcast. Episodes 1805, 1807, 1808, 1809 (removed due to threat of a lawsuit for defamation; you'd have to find an archived copy. Adam Steed is a difficult interviewee in many ways, unless you are already deeply, intimately aware of Mormonism; his thoughts are often very jumbled and he has a hard time expressing things in a linear fashion), 1817, 1817, 1825 (tangentially; it's about "Visions of Glory"), 1826, 1844, 1865, 1869, and 1873. It's also tangentially related the the Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell murder cases, in that the beliefs of Jodi Hildebrant and Ruby Franke were both heavily influenced by the same apocalyptic book, "Visions of Glory".

Keep in mind that the episodes I just listed comprise roughly around 30 hours of listening. About half of them are long-form interviews. Unless you have an an interest in cults, religious indoctrination, apocalyptic beliefs, this is probably not going to be your thing. And unless you were raised Mormon--or have listened to the other 5400 hours or so of podcasts that John Dehlin has done--it's probably going to be a little hard to follow what's going on.

A very, very short version is that, while Franke was always borderline abusive as a mom (and that's pretty par for the course in Mormon families, TBH), Hildebrandt is an incredibly charismatic, persuasive psychopath that used a version of Mormon theology to induce her to be far, far worse than she would have otherwise been. If Hildebrandt had been male--because you must be male to have real power in the Mormon church--she almost certainly would have ended up leading a fundamentalist cult.

EDIT When I say that Franke was borderline abusive, I mean that she was borderline before she met Jodi Hildebrandt. Once Hildebrandt attached herself to Franke, Franke's behavior became overtly, obviously abusive. In my opinion, Franke was always vulnerable to acting in that way, but Hildebrant was who convinced her that abuse was appropriate and moral.

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[-] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 49 points 3 months ago

Their actions have been condemned by other Mormon parenting bloggers who say they misrepresented their community and the religion

Oh bullshit. These religious zealots get together every fucking week at church and pretend they didn't know this abuse was happening? Mormons are a cult and should be treated as such.

[-] FilterItOut@thelemmy.club 5 points 3 months ago

When it comes to mormons, never forget that they had networks of their pastors and elders to hide and ignore abuse. They were more systematic about it than the cuntish catholics.

https://apnews.com/article/mormon-sex-abuse-de446ad8212b6ca50ecbaaf222c35e7e

https://apnews.com/article/mormon-church-sexual-abuse-investigation-e0e39cf9aa4fbe0d8c1442033b894660

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[-] TIMMAY@lemmy.world 38 points 3 months ago

typical religious nut, dont let them fool you in to thinking that this person is an outlier

[-] FilterItOut@thelemmy.club 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

This person's actions are an outlier, but the beliefs are not. My own mother held very similar ones during my early years, and the circle of women at the church was not shy in voicing their opinions which, oh so outlier-like, were also similar to this woman's. That was in an eastern US state, in a protestant church. Don't forget that the US had the (insanity of) belief in the childcare cults of satan, that D&D was from satan, that rock music was the road to satan, etc. Those were massive, widespread beliefs. They haven't gone away entirely. Talk to members of a rural church, and you'll hear the subtle hints of all those things, but they've learned not to be overt.

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[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 35 points 3 months ago

I guess "religious extremism" is accurate, but this is batshit insanity as well. There is something very, very wrong in this woman's brain, and it requires treatment. While she rots in prison of course.

[-] frickineh@lemmy.world 70 points 3 months ago

There are many, many Christians who abuse their kids under the guise of godliness. Ever heard of "To Train Up a Child"? It's a whole book about how to properly abuse your child to turn them into a mindless, obedient slave. They start hitting them as infants for showing curiosity. There are popular Christian influencers who have openly spoken about the ways they "discipline" their kids - one said her husband "doesn't know his own strength" with their kids. Aka he's beaten the shit out of them more than once. Sure, Ruby Franke turned it up to 11, but she and her husband routinely abused their children and were public about it for years, and plenty of people saw no problem with it and continued to consume their content.

I'd argue it's not mental illness, it's the natural consequence of practicing a branch of Christianity that doesn't see children as people, just little trophies who aren't meant to have any personality, needs, or wants. They're supposed to parrot everything their parents believe and otherwise not be seen or heard.

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 29 points 3 months ago

Your argument is good, and your views have merit. Which is super fucking depressing.

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[-] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 57 points 3 months ago

What?

This is par for the course.

Pretty much every Abrahmic offshoot was started by someone who was completely insane.

According to their own history, it all kicked off with Abraham killing family members because a voice in his head told him that anyone doubting the voice needs murdered.

He was violent and insane and now literally billions and billions of people worship the voice he invented, and legitimately believe that if a voice in their head shows up telling them to do horrible shit, it's probably cool because maybe it's just God again.

There is absolutely nothing surprising when a person who not only believes those fairy tales, but come from a family they may have spent thousands of years believing them, starts thinking theyre the next "special one".

Sure, most people dont actually believe in their own religions. But they pretend it's real, and then the really crazy ones do shit like this.

Being shocked this keeps happening is like asking why your car runs out of gas when you never put gas in it until after the tanks dry

This is the rational result of what they're doing.

[-] dustyData@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago

You'd often finds that religious extremists prefer to prey on the mentally unwell. They're more susceptible to abuse and easier to turn into abusers themselves. Then the chain repeats and the abuse self-replicates, propagating the abuse. Very sane and well adjusted individuals can be made to be really cruel and destructive via religious abuse.

[-] ArtieShaw@fedia.io 16 points 3 months ago

Her business partner (and co-defendant) is described as a "mental health counselor." I'm sure she's fine.

/s

[-] gregorum@lemm.ee 26 points 3 months ago

Which is why I don’t trust any shrink that’s religious. You can’t claim to be mentally sound when you hold that delusion in your mind.

[-] Carlo@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 months ago

I've definitely applied this filter when selecting a therapist. In Texas, you can weed out a whole lot of them, because they'll explicitly mention it in their bio.

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[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

I don't recall what Hildebrandt's degree is, but she is--or was, before this criminal case got it revoked--a licensed practitioner. She came very, very close to getting her license revoked over some major malpractice and HIPAA violations with a guy named Adam Steed, but was able to retain her license and was put on probation.

The best explanation I've heard from interviewees that had worked with her is that she's a genuine, clinical psychopath.

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[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 34 points 3 months ago

The bitterest part?

  • "Do not harm little children" - Church of Satan
  • "One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason." - The Satanic Temple

Are you getting the picture? People who claim themselves to side with Satan are more eager to show compassion than people who claim to fight against a devil. It immediately reminds me what my grandma used to say, that "Protestants love the devil so much that they talk about him nonstop". (Not that the Catholic church is any better, I know.)

[I'm not Satanist, regardless of my nickname, by the way.]

[-] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago

The satanic temple name is more than anything just sarcastic, they don't believe in Satan, they're just using it because they know it irks the religious.

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[-] jaschen@lemm.ee 31 points 3 months ago

These children deserve better. I cried when I watched the little girl inside the closet and the cops giving a pizza to her.

I would adopt that little girl and raise her as my own. She deserves a better life.

[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 23 points 3 months ago

The father is currently fighting for custody. The situation is complicated, but Hildebrandt would wedge herself between couples, encourage wives to sever communications with the husbands, and convince them to force the husbands to move out of their joint home. Often because the husbands were 'sex addicts' (e.g., might have masturbated once or twice, of looked at pornography). Franke's husband probably had no idea what was going on with Hildebrant. He did file for divorce within a few weeks of the arrest.

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[-] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago

He forgot the famous aphorism, "feed a demon, starve an evangelist"

[-] TK420@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago

Sounds like we really need a “priest hunter” profession again so we can squash religion once and for all.

People wonder why I’m so against religion, well folks, here is an easy example of why the delusional need to wake the fuck up.

[-] anarchy79@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

"Why don't you take a seat right over there, pastor?"

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[-] minibyte@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 months ago

“I will not feed a demon” says Youtuber – is a fun headline.

[-] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

Whole lot of irony in that one sentence.

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[-] nifty@lemmy.world 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

What the actual fuck? These women are sick. There’s a deeper reason (like ~~some mental illnesses or~~ sociopathy) for why these women did these things, and their motivations should be examined. If we know more about such things, we can hopefully protect against other people with such behavior in the future.

Sure, we can blame religion, but what if religion didn’t exist? Would people like these women not exist either, or would they use another excuse for their behavior?

[-] solarbabies@lemmy.world 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Until a mental health issue has been concretely determined, I believe it's somewhat irresponsible to toss the idea around that it's the underlying root cause for this obscene behavior.

Religion, like other dogmas, has historically empowered and continues to empower a lot of otherwise mentally healthy people to feel okay doing plenty of fucked up shit, simply because religion said it's okay to do it.

Ever heard of the Stanford Prisoner Experiment? Many "normal" people will do terrible things if simply given permission.

[-] nifty@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago

That experiment was recently shown to be a lie, https://www.vox.com/2018/6/13/17449118/stanford-prison-experiment-fraud-psychology-replication

But I think you’re right that people go along with a lot simply because of religious doctrine. There are plenty of cases of failed “exorcisms”

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[-] JimSamtanko@lemm.ee 9 points 3 months ago

If religion didn’t exist, a lot of this bullshit wouldn’t happen. Some still would, but a good portion wouldn’t happen.

[-] _sideffect@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

I keep saying this, but the issue are the people that watch these videos. If they didn't have followers they wouldn't be where they are or could do what they do. (But in this case, maybe even without all the money they still would have abused those poor kids)

[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 24 points 3 months ago

Franke 100% would have been doing this even without being a YouTuber. What she was doing on 8 Passengers is not all that extreme in Mormon circles, and I don't mean just the deeply conservative ones. Yes, she went a little farther than most Mormons would be comfortable with, but the core ideas? They entirely understand where she was coming from. The commonly cited example is her refusing to bring lunch to a child (6yo?) that forgot it, saying that it's 'personal responsibility'; many Mormons would argue that it's a little too young to expect a 6yo to be fully responsible like that, but if a 10yo child forgot? Or an 8yo? No problem.

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[-] ULS@lemmy.ml 16 points 3 months ago

I don't think society understands the scale of ignorance and evil of other humans that walk among us. I used to always say it's 50/50. But I think it's more like 75/25 and decent people with respect for life are the minority. It feels like it's game over for humanity.

[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 33 points 3 months ago

its the opposite. most people are genuinely decent folk. the world is actually getting safer despite what you see and hear because we now see and hear so much more than we used to. its a confirmation bias.

at some point we will realize that religion itself is a cancer. like most cancers, it has a strong benign composition with many deadly streaks.

just like with benign cancers, it must be excised and treated as the mental health problem it is.

[-] hypnotoad__@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 months ago

Unfortunately too late I think. It's metastasized.

[-] forrgott@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Left to their own devices, a very strong majority of people default to being "good" people (I generally consider "good" is self sacrifice for the good is the many, and similar thinking and behavior - "evil" is selfish actions and 'the end justify the means'). However, people are unfortunately not left to their own devices due to algorithms, echo chambers, propaganda, etc.

And evil is far easier to spread than good is....

[-] PoliticallyIncorrect@lemm.ee 12 points 3 months ago

Let me guess.. Mormons?

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