[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I'll disagree about age. At 23, the pre-frontal cortex is still developing and won't be finished until around 25.

It's responsible for:

  • Executive functions (planning, decision-making, problem-solving)
  • Impulse control
  • Emotional regulation
  • Social interactions and behavior

There is a distinct imbalance between someone in their 60's and someone in their early 20's. I'm not saying it can't be carefully and respectfully navigated, but it has to be acknowledged and accounted for.

It doesn't sound like that happened here.

Then we have the power dynamic of a celebrity who is also your employer. Add in a healthy dose of fictive kinship due to the live-in nature of a nanny and you're in a situation rife with the potential for abuse.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 37 points 14 hours ago

Sleeping with the nanny less than half your age isn't a great start for a discussion of power dynamics in a sexual relationship.

I'm not going to assume anything either way, bo the women deserve to be heard, at the very least.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 23 hours ago

Historian Sean Munger's excellent 2-part series on the JFK assassination interestingly titled: Oswald Acted Alone.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

The grinder for pepper corns. It gives you more flavor than ground pepper.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

It's a hot take! Wouldn't be good if it weren't inflammatory.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

Pepper Mills are overrated.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

So the fine edge of the blade can warp as you use it. The honing rod helps straighten that back out to improve cutting. The whetstone actually removes bits of steel in order to create a new edge. Honing should be done regularly, but using a whetstone to sharpen the blade is periodic.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

A honing rod and whetstone fulfill different functions. You should ideally be using both for knife maintenance.

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The Three Kingdoms era of Chinese History has long been a topic of fascination for me and my brothers growing up.

I’ve never really GMed my own content before, but really wanted to set up a campaign for my brother, wife, and a few friends who’ve been drawn unwittingly into my esoteric interests. Because nothing existed to support my interests, I cobbled together a combination of Cortex Prime, which is incredibly modular and perfect for the purpose, and Reign, a fantasy RPG with rules for governing interactions between groups.

For those who may not know, the Three Kingdoms era of Chinese history is a massive, 80-year civil war during which 1/4 of the entire world’s population died. There are countless factions that ultimately condensed down to three major factions: hence the Three Kingdoms.

My players have assumed the leadership of the fictional Hiahe City, after the previous ruler died at the Battle of Hulao Pass. Dong Zhuo remains ensconced in power in the new capital and rumors of a powerful sorceress becoming his newly adopted daughter imply his power may still be rising.

Hiahe city has been economically devastated by banditry, it’s martial might a fraction of its former self after the battle and internal strife from various political families, many of whom have been courted by the envious Han Fu, a powerful but short-sighted nearby governor.

After spending their first session familiarizing themselves with their problems and the setting at large, the players made shrewd decisions to buy time with internal factions in order to focus on dealing with the banditry.

They located a group of Yellow Turbans (rebels from the civil war just ten years prior) and offered them supplies and potential amnesty should they help with the banditry. With some clever talking from the party’s Taoist monk and some abundantly generous supplies and the former rebels agreed to aid the players.

In an unexpected turn of events, Gongsan Zan’s emissary, Zhao Yun, arrived with an offer of aid due to the city’s former master having saved his life at the battle of Hulao Pass. I fully expected my players to sit on this marker and save it for the storms that lie ahead, but instead they called it in immediately to arrange an overwhelming attack on the Black Mountain Bandits.

The result was an absolutely devastating battle in which two of our players rode out and defeated the enemy commander, Zhang Yan, one of Gongsan Zan’s former lieutenants. With his death and the overwhelming allied might, the bandits routed almost immediately and their encampment was seized and their forces totally dispersed. Even some of the less martial players were able to serve with distinction and make a name for themselves.

Zhao Yun, a legendary warrior from this period, became close friends with the player who serves as the spymaster and for those familiar with the setting, everyone hopes to lure him to serve Hiahe.

Some players were upset at “wasting” the marker from Gongsun Zan. He was a powerful cavalry commander, think Rohan, who could have been a life saver in a pinch or the hammer to their anvil. Time will tell, but building brotherhood with Zhao Yun and completely dispersing the Black Mountain Bandits were unexpected outcomes from my perspective as the GM.

Other players felt that employing former rebels to aid in the battle would come back to haunt them and there are certainly powerful families within the city who will be very upset to see former yellow turbans in the militia.

That said, they’re flush with bandit treasure, have firmly established themselves as the new sovereigns and have laid the groundwork for renewed prosperity in the region.

Still, unrest remains within the city as various factions vie for influence and wealth. Han Fu’s reach grows longer and Dong Zhuo threatens to extend his control beyond the capital once more.

Still further ahead men of virtue and ambition, such as Liu Bei, Yuan Shao, and the infamous Cao Cao, all wait to make their move and build their name.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 137 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

This is the downside to being on the internet. Occasionally you get caught in the crossfire.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 140 points 5 months ago

He knew he wasn't above the law, he just believed the consequences were worth it. I hope he's right.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 172 points 7 months ago

They should never have been allowed to buy them to begin with.

The second best time is now.

[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 133 points 8 months ago

Every time I think of moving somewhere with a lower cost of living, stuff like this happens and reminds me why I pay a premium.

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