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submitted 9 months ago by DragonWasabi@monyet.cc to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I want to be respectful but if they say they don't care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to "they" because choosing a gender for them feels weird... am I wrong?

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[-] strawberry@artemis.camp 11 points 9 months ago

literally anything. call me whatever u feel like

[-] ekky43@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 months ago

It/that - coincidally also the pronouns I go by when in groblin mode.

"would it like a glass of chocomuh?" - yes, it always wants a glass of chocomuh.

[-] Valmond@lemmy.mindoki.com 2 points 9 months ago

Just curious ; if I feel like you're a he one day, and then a she another (for example), would that bother you, or would you prefer a person being a bit stable in the pronouns they use?

I'm only talking about the pronouns used.

[-] strawberry@artemis.camp 2 points 9 months ago
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