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Lucky for me my parents were both "I didn't save anything for retirement, my kids will take care of me when I'm older", so I don't have to suffer through this.

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[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 16 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I don't see that. To me it reads as guilt tripping the parents for wanting to spend the money they themselves earned.

[–] sifr@retrolemmy.com 1 points 28 minutes ago

It is one thing if a kid's parents just does not have the means, but the article points out that some baby boomers (maybe more commonly in a the west?) can have tendencies to be spiteful toward people deemed less. Maybe this happens more so in WASP culture.

I'm personally of the belief that if I ever chose to have kids, that I would see it to the end that they felt supported, regardless of their age. The kids themselves didn't ask to be born.

A lot of cultures who have these values, I notice, have kids that thrive a lot more. I have some friends from east Asia, and they all were encouraged to be independent and pursue meaningful careers. Their parents support them intensely, and help with investments and other forms of support.

My biological father's family is Jewish (nonreligious). My first cousin is very successful and I know has been set up to have a meaningful career, because my aunt let her live at home during graduate school, and paid for her graduate degree in speech pathology. She will inherit the house she grew up in.

I grew up in WASP culture on my biological mother's side, and my mom has the attitude that she wants nothing to do with me, especially after I turned 18.

[–] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Indeed, OP is a stupid take. For all the shit boomers pulled off with this planet, spending their own money is a good thing.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah they should be allowed to burn everything they ever touched and take it with them when they go. Or maybe we even build giant stone triangles for them and put all their stuff in there with them.

Them getting to spend all the money scraped from the rest of the world and leaving a bleaker version behind us so justified. They put in all that effort and who cares about next generations anyways.

Common phrase of course:
"Cut down all the trees you planted in life so that nobody but you can ever sit beneath it's shade."

[–] raspberriesareyummy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I don't think you understand what "spending money" means. It's a good thing because one of the bigger problems in today's world is wealth-hoarding - accumulated wealth grows and when it's spent, it actually helps the economy, by people earning money from the services / manufactured products bought.

[–] troglodytis@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, in the USA, spending money usually means handing it over to the ultra wealth hoarders

Unfortunately, in the ~~USA~~DSA, spending money usually means handing it over to the ultra wealth hoarders

Let's not kid ourselves and call them "united" anymore. Anyways, this is lemmy.world, not lemmy.dsa, so while I am pretty sure that even in the DSA, spending money helps the economy, I was talking global.