Unpaywall bot would be more useful than tldr. Probably.

yeah for serious "woah". I replied earlier up and I wish I hadn't bothered now.

I don't need to fix anything because I am not the problem. Historically, systemically and individually I am not the problem. I will continue to go about my life with my eyes wide open with risk assessment. I'm happy for you that you're safe but I'm sad that you don't seem able to listen to what all the women (and some men) in these comments are saying.

I'm certainly feeling disenheartened after all this. Idk why I thought lemmy could do better.

Fuck me. Victim blaming 101 here.

How can you tell which is which when they're all dressed as men?

Oh wow. Memory unlocked. We used to have a code word for "get me out of this interaction". The amount of times I've been the one to break off a conversation/situation with a man on behalf of my friends and the amount of time the interaction has been scary.

Luckily I'm old and invisible now.

Same end result.

There's MLE (multicultural London English) in the UK. Must be similar all over.

I swear down you finna cap that bruh

I get most of my slang from among us and then I learn the correct usage on tiktok and then I purposely do it wrong because aging is fun and I'm a parent.

Saaaame.