SharkEatingBreakfast

joined 1 year ago

In order to get the answers you're looking for, put out the question "what exactly does this statement mean?" instead of "sounds like this means ___" and waiting for a confirmation/rejection of your assumption.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I've never met a well-adjusted homeschooled kid.

— former homeschooled kid

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I do stuff that involves quite a lot of printing, scanning, and copying.

My goofy lil Canon Pixma MG3620 printer has held strong throughout the years.

I will scream if it ever dies, as I have zero desire to peruse the hellscape of current-day printers.

itemlabel!

I have (almost) all their plushes & a bunch of their hoodies, too.

Search "Big Shirt" and you'll find it.

Fun fact: the risk is more from the flour than it is the egg.

I mean, yeah, that's how I deal with it.

But even some non-church-going folks with drop off their kids at "youth group" essentially for free childcare and debatable "moral development."

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Exploiting people: making them feel that they have no choice under the threat of poverty if they don't comply, often resulting in accepting less than favorable pay/them paying more to get something they need.

Monetizing people: "We already play video games for fun, so why don't we turn it into a thing where we get paid to play video games by streaming it and possibly doing ads or accepting audience donations?"

Basically, exploitation is taking advantage of people's possible desperation. Monetization is just taking something people might want and changing/making money off of it.

Monetization can lead to exploitation, but they are not intrinsically the same at its base.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 112 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (5 children)

P×dophiles are flocking to churches because they're unregulated by the government. They're becoming a safe haven for these sick fucks because they often attempt to handle conflict and scandals within their own walls. Also, due to a high need for childcare, often no background check is needed!

A "scandal" is bad for ~~business~~ attendance numbers, so they like to keep it quiet, if they can.

My family has gone to so many churches throughout the years, and at least 5 or 6 have had the sexual abuse of a child come to light within church leadership.

I am dead serious about this: KEEP YOUR KIDS OUT OF CHURCHES!!!!

EDIT: I forgot to mention that most clergy are not bound by laws that would make them mandated reporters for child abuse.

Thank you. Maybe one day.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 46 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (5 children)

Because when I do what I want, I get called a "retard" or asked "what the fuck are you doing?" by the people around me. I make a point to try to do things quietly (stopping to observe a cool bug, making chalk drawings on the sidewalk, saying "wheee!" on the swings, etc.), but it really doesn't matter.

I've caught glimpses of people filming me before, so I now only do what I want in privacy.

Also doesn't help that I've been accused of "doing it for attention." Nah, my dude, pretty sure I'm just fckin' autistic.

I only want people to leave me alone now. I don't like having to justify my actions when I'm just trying to enjoy myself.

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anime_irl (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works to c/anime_irl@ani.social
 

Yet again: I'll add the source once my brain is fully booted

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anime_irl (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works to c/anime_irl@ani.social
 

I'll add the source once my brain is fully booted

I genuinely can't tell if this is trolling or genuine ignorance.

Either way, I'm disappointed.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sh.itjust.works 10 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Have you ever been pregnant before? I can assure you, it's absolutely not a lighter weight alternative.

 

Hey, so.. I may be in this situation soon, and I may just be in over my head here, but I'm a sucker who really couldn't say no to this.

This kid took care of his grandmother as she deteriorated and finally died. He was there when it happened. She had a degenerative disease and the kid's mom left him with her so she could "babysit" him, when in reality, this kid was the only one looking after her. His parent is a working single mom, so it's really not her fault, but, like.. damn.

The kid is 8 years old.

Kid's dad is just gone. Disappeared. Has been since he was tiny.

He sometimes is watched over by his aunt, but she & the nieces just literally ignore him. He says that he just sat quietly on the couch for days. They fed him and whatever, but that family has their own batshit fuckery going on. Not mentally stable, tbh. The aunt is very hostile and I think he is scared of her.

He's one of my in-law's kids (whom I don't even know well), but, like.. holy shit. He and his mom now live in the deceased grandmother's house, but she now has no one to watch over him. He has been going to work with her and being told to sit quietly and do not much else. They're now almost an hour away from his school, so he may lose that part of his stability, too.

Again.. he's 8. And holy shit, kid barely talks. He's so well-behaved and meek, it actually alarms me greatly. He used to hang out with my brother's kids, but my brother moved out of state. He came back this week and was asked to watch over the kid while he and his kids were in town. This is when I've most recently reconnected with the kid, but I've met him before when my brother was still in town.

I have room in my home. I'm a single parent, too, but I'm fortunate to work from home and have a kid who's 12 who could hang out, play video games with him, take him to the park, and whatever. I'm close to his school. I don't have much right now, but, like.. fuck, I want to give this kid a good, loving space, stability, and get him into therapy, for fucks sake.

I don't give a shit about what your opinion of the mom is. I met her like twice. I also don't plan to adopt this kid or anything (unless it really comes to that but that's not a thing right now since he obviously has a parent), but I just need advice on how I should navigate this.

Medical needs? Can I get him into therapy without trouble? Will I need the parent's permission? What should I ask her for? I'm not sure she'd be okay giving me his documents if this is temporary, but FUCK there's a lot to do. I want to do something right for this kid.

Help? Please?

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