MerrySkeptic

joined 1 year ago
[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 47 points 3 days ago (20 children)

The truth is that Trump has done more for conservative causes than any president prior. He installed the far right justices that have toppled Roe v Wade and affirmative action. He enacted things like the Muslim travel bans. In short, either they know he's a scumbag and don't care because he gets results, or they don't believe their own lyin' eyes because look at the results he produces. It's all about the bottom line, and the ends justify the means.

I wouldn't say there's a norm, everyone varies. What would probably help a bunch is some sort of validation for how that fight sucked for the other person, no matter who's right or wrong.

"Hey, I'm sorry we fought. I hate it and I know you do too. I don't ever mean to make you feel bad. I love you and want us to be ok. Is there anything else you need me to understand?"

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago

I thought it was good but not as moving as the first. I like that they explain the function of anxiety, similar to how they showed that Sadness had a function in the first. Originally Anxiety was going to be the villain, but they avoided that trap.

Some of the teen stuff is cringey. And there's nothing on par with the Bing Bong moment in terms of sheer emotion. But overall it was a good movie.

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 47 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

A kid with his whole life in front of him is dead because some wannabe cop decided it was his duty to guard the parking lot that nobody asked him to guard.

And the icing on the cake: he did this while his own son was in martial arts class. Now this asshat is likely going to prison (there's witnesses and video surveillance and he's not a cop so he will get some kind of prison time) and his own son is going to miss out on having his dad in his life.

This country has a fucking problem. We sold our soul to capitalism and this is what happens. There's no hope for meaningful legislation. Any systemic reform that might hurt an industry with enough money has no hope.

But hey, thoughts and prayers, and all that bullshit

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 weeks ago

Just curious, what are his reasons for not wanting to upgrade?

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

I am in the US so I don't know much about the UK specifically, but generally speaking I would think about starting small and working your way up.

For example, in the US there are many state or national parks that offer campsites where you could rent a basic cabin so you don't have to worry about a tent. Or you could get a site with a covered pavilion with tables and benches so you don't have to worry about seating or shade. Many have built in charcoal grills and fire pits. I would also recommend you start with somewhere that has access to plumbing and maybe even electricity for your first few go rounds.

There are also privately owned parks that cater to the "glamping" crowd where you can have access to a fancier cabin and other amenities like swimming pools, sports equipment, etc.

As far as camping equipment I would highly recommend you start off buying used gear. Good equipment can be pricey because it is meant to last, and you are not even sure if this is something you're going to stick with yet. Try out some used gear and see what you like and don't like about it. If you decide to stick with this you can always invest in better gear later. The basics should include a sleeping bag, tent, and maybe a propane stove. There are many things you probably already have or can make do with something. For example you don't need to go buy specialty camping cookware when you can just bring a pan and utensils from home. You don't need a backpack unless you plan to do some actual backpacking; a trunk or duffel bag is fine if you're driving into your site.

Anyway, hope this helps! Enjoy your journey!

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Therapists have a wide variety of personal beliefs and professional opinions. They're people just like anyone else in any other field.

Unfortunately even well-meaning therapists can do a lot of harm when they forget to take a non-judgmental stance and just be curious about their clients.

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In the US there's the saying "you can't squeeze water from a stone"

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 82 points 1 month ago (10 children)

In case anyone forgot, ACAB

Does anyone think the officers who did this are going to face legal consequences? Does anyone think they feel a shred of remorse for what they did? Does anyone think that after they come back from their paid leave that any of their fellow officers are going to speak out against their return?

No?

ACAB. Fuck them all.

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't agree with their religion and they shouldn't have even been there. But to say that they were tourists is unfair. They were full-time missionaries. They (sadly) dedicated their lives to spreading their religion. They also probably tried to help meet basic needs like food, shelter, etc.

Religion is complicated and this was a preventable tragedy.

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 month ago (3 children)

All work is not degrading. Underpaid work is degrading.

Hyperbole will just undercut valid arguments and convince people they don't need to tune in

[–] MerrySkeptic@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 month ago

The Expanse made other sci-fi seem like fanfic

 
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