APassenger

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[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

I think getting actionable advice was the point of the thread.

Editorials are often seen as disrespectful and dont get the engagement you'd hope (this isn't a news community).

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

You're daft. I wasn't forced to admit that the US has an oligarchy and you didn't add one bit of persuasion to my conclusion. I've been there for years.

You create an image of the people you talk with and then argue with that image.

There are two things wrong with that. You don't see the person. And you're arguing instead of anything useful. Both track back to an unnecessary and unhealthy predilection to combativeness.

You look for fault in others. You look for reasons to feel or be righteous. You look for all this stuff. And sometimes, you find it where it isn't.

Your style is broken. Your approach is broken. You vision of who you speak with is broken. You've forgotten that with very rare exception, all posters are people.

You act like you're the sole arbiter of a person's worth and that that always tracks to being on the "right side" of issues you exclusively care about. It's immature and, honestly, intellectually lazy.

And if the topic of persuasion or decency doesn't seem substantive to you, then you really need to reflect on why that's your response.

Let's add: you responded quickly to the tankie part. What say you about hating people for their country of origin? Because you've shown active disdain as soon as you think you know they're from places.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 7 points 1 year ago

The guy who won "over a billion" (that's not what he got to keep) has headlines with his full name, what real estate he's bought, lawsuits brought against him and he's had to get body guards.

Because california forces a person to claim it and anonymity isn't allowed.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Checking yours is how people quickly identify the tankie who hates people for their country of origin.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago (15 children)

LOL. I'm not trolling, I'm just distracting one.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have no disagreement with calling our system an oligarchy. It's part of why I'm pro-socialism.

Money isn't the only thing driving the oligarchy, but it's way up there on my list.

Profound, immeasurable wealth is a blight and a hallmark of poor mental health.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't see them being glib on every 10th thread I click through.

That distinction is entirely yours.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 13 points 1 year ago

Grieve. Be kind to yourself, be kind to them. Allow yourself to feel without resisting the feelings. But don't chase them either.

There isn't a right way to feel for most of this.

Part of grieving is reflection (usually). Remembering good times, bad times and wish-they-were-different times. Find a way to be with those moments and accept them as they are: moments. They aren't lost, just future ones will be different.

And that's okay. Or it will be. And you'll be okay, too.

I ruminate too. I tell myself it helps me learn, helps me grow, helps me remember not to "x". It rarely helps. It's just a conditioned response that makes me feel more control while i actually lose some.

What truly helps is healing. Learning that sometimes compatability isn't a you tho Ing or a them thing. But it's still a thing and somebody called the spade a spade.

If you weren't up to your standards, then rise. Otherwise, coat yourself in patience. Listen to YouTube videos like Tara Brach. Be honest with yourself as you heal. We all have barbs, we all have scars.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I like all this and I'll add that for those who choose to participate, there is more than enough. For those who opt out, there is no lack.

But numbing oneself isn't a passtime.

And all are treated with respect and freedom for all is a primary principle.

In essence: this and the other post that includes no scarcity and the end of capitalism.

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one -2 points 1 year ago

Haughtiness Rationalized abiding envy Celebrity worship Consistent hypocrisy

What makes me like them? The inverse: modesty, being happy for others, not being classist, integrity

[–] APassenger@lemmy.one 7 points 1 year ago

When I read the posy what I heard was: how do we ensure high quality content? If we have that, SE won't need the O.

And I'm down for high quality.

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