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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 2 years ago

MUCH more active here for me

Definitely. I'm both posting and commenting way more. I need to do my part to make sure this thing really takes off!

[–] Inari@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

This place feels more relaxed and open, while reddit felt absurdly competitive and suffocating at times. It used to just be a place to talk to other people about specific topics (and it still is in some places), but now so much of it feels like a competition for the most upvotes and awards.

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

i feel most of the people that actually made the jump to lemmy are the more mature and calmer crowd as compared to your average Redditor

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[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 3 points 2 years ago

My local cities daily thread is more active than it what's left on Reddit, despite the Reddit community having 600k subs. 410 comments on the Reddit thread, 480 on the lemmy community thread.

It's been like this daily.

[–] onlinely@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Not yet. My niche communities don’t exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 years ago

Tip for when Lemmy becomes bigger: Find a niche community that's big enough you get seen, but small enough you get noticed.

Yeah I'm easy more active here that on Reddit, though I was very active when Reddit was younger. It just got too big and lost that feeling of taking to actual people and contributing to the overall experience.

[–] Kiloee@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I feel like I am not yet, but I will be. Some of the subs I have on Reddit aren’t here yet, partly because they’re either niche or liked by a lot of people that are less tech literate including their maintainers.

I have gone trough some instances before deciding on my current one and I like the stance of most that are for an active discussion, against mindless downvotes and for overall more communication than social media consumption.

The fact that there is next to no automated account making will also help in the long run I think. It makes it an less attractive target for the bad kind of bots imo.

[–] eleitl@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Those niche communities you are missing? Recreate them here, and invite people over there to join.

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[–] robonps@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Yes. Smaller community, and generally more intelligent, or at least more capable of having a meaningful discussion.

I think it's something that happens when you throw a larger group of people together, like reddit, where people act a bit different ime

Even I am less toxic, and more positive. Something about reddit messed that up.

Atp, I'm here more for discourse than any specific content, and that's something I really missed about social media.

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 2 points 2 years ago

back to a level of activity i would call my "normal". hasn't been like this in almost a decade.

[–] Pyrux@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Only reason I visit reddit now is to see how the dumpster fire is going

[–] Crylos@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

1000%!

I actually created a community for a hobby of mine, and have been trying to post and comment more.

[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

My level of activity on Reddit has been wanting. I was / am still fairly active in some niche subs, but I used to be pretty active in AskReddit, askmen, and several other spaces.

I've made a concerted effort to be more active here, and it feels nice! Feels a lot more human

[–] PAPPP@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 years ago

I've never been much of a poster (not even 2 posts/yr for the almost dozen years I've had a reddit habit), but I was a regular commenter in various specific-interest subs.

I am, as a rule, no longer contributing content to Reddit, since they've made it clear they plan to finish their transition from "hosting communities" to "extracting value from users." Frankly, it's not as much of an imposition as I feared, because many of those communities seem to be broadly taking the same attitude.

I'm actively trying to comment heavily here to to try to help establish communities. If I had a little more free time I'd do some posting and/or try to help spin some successor communities for my interests.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh for sure. It definitely seems like people are more level-headed over here, and are less likely to find the most nitpick-y thing to jump into an argument with you over.

(Which, to clarify, I don't mean someone correcting information I've posted - of course, if I've posted something incorrect I'd like to know - but even then, there is always a tactful way to go about doing so)

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[–] dispenser@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think so. I feel the camaraderie is much higher here as well, since we’re all refugees together in a sense, but also part of a great new thing.

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[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Absolutely, I'm way more active on here. Reddit is so oversaturated, it's impossible to comment on a post before it already has hundreds of comments unless you have time to sit in New and comment as submissions come in. Here, I feel like someone will actually read what I write. Thanks for reading!

[–] we_swarm@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Current Lemmy feels a lot more like early reddit. At the same time I don't think it has hit its Eternal September moment. The site is still primarily the domain of early adopters and people who care about the community.

[–] jax@lemmy.cloudhub.social 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, I am significantly more active here than I was on Reddit (at least recently, my decline on posting/commenting on Reddit started a few years ago).

[–] Md1501@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

I have not been on reddit since the protest, but I didnt post or comment a lot anyway so probably not much of an impact

[–] thesanewriter@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I definitely am. I may have more comments and posts here than on Reddit already and I have only been here a fraction of the time.

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 years ago

I'm not there yet, although I did a lot on Reddit

[–] Borgzilla@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, I didn't have an account and I always browsed via a proxy (Teddit). I didn't want to be manipulated by the algorithm.

[–] deathbypizza@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Have recently made the jump from Reddit. With a brilliant 3rd part app - go figure!! I expect to be more active here.

[–] writerlygal@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I certainly do! Reddit was just too loud in every way.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I’m making myself be active here. I’m learning to build my own lemmy instance on a VPS.

I want there to be a sea change in social media. I want an authentic intellectual conversation. I was in college during the usenet era and found it easy to find mind expanding stuff there with a minimum of toxicity.

My hope is the community and software mature steadily together until it is ready to handle a significant influx.

Let’s not reward toxicity. We need to steer the conversation and the software development to reward quality engagement over quantity.

[–] john12@lemmy.sbs 2 points 2 years ago

Feel free to reach out if you have any questions about hosting your own instance. I'm by no means an expert, but it would appear that I have successfully deployed my own.

Yeah, I mean, I'm not the most active, but I made a sublemmy (I'm still not sure about the naming convention here lol) and that's something I never did on Reddit, because everything was usually already there in some form. I also did it to contribute, because I know that us being active actually counts for something. On Reddit I could go months without posting or commenting. So yes, I'm definitely more active and it feels like you are actually engaging with other people and not just consuming content.

[–] lasagna@programming.dev 2 points 2 years ago

Nah. Thankfully my mindless scrolling time has taken a dive, which is an issue I had been meaning to address regardless.

[–] heliumlake@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, definitely. Maybe I feel like my contributions matter more since we are all trying to make this a viable platform? I dunno, but it's definitely more fun interacting here than on reddit.

[–] shemishtamesh@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago

yes, never had a reddit account.

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