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[–] Senseless@feddit.org 14 points 50 minutes ago

If you can't afford living wages for your staff so they're not dependant on tips, your store shouldn't be open.

[–] labbbb2@thelemmy.club 1 points 11 minutes ago* (last edited 9 minutes ago)

Nice precedent for corruption

[–] Plasma@lemmy.ml 40 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

If any place said a 30% tip is so so, I'm not tipping.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 9 points 1 hour ago

If I saw this I would give them exactly what I think they're worth. $0.01 and a bad online review.

[–] Freefall@lemmy.world 48 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (22 children)

10-15% IF you went above and beyond or performed particularly well. It's a tip, I am not your employer. I used to be a huge tipper until I realized just how fucked that whole system is. Also, NEVER PRE-TIP. That is insane!

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 26 points 3 hours ago

Pre-tip? I think that's called a bribe

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 27 points 3 hours ago

Avoid joints that's "require" tipping.

Deny the parasite profit.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 42 points 4 hours ago (5 children)

Maybe the restaurants should pay their employees so customers don't have to pay them? I know it's a radical thought.

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[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 hours ago

Relevant post from earlier this month

Honestly if it starts at 30% then im 0% tipping and they can fuck right off.

[–] just_an_average_joe@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

The issue with tipping is an issue with capitalism.

It is capitalism that has ruined nice things. Imagine the first person who tipped someone because their service was good and it was a nice thing to do. Next other people started doing it as well, which makes the profession with tipping more favorable.

This leads to a higher supply of workers and lower demand and the market adjusts which means lower pay because "they will receive tips".

Also it is easy to vilify the shop owners for doing something that the system encourages and even demands them. We don't know how or in what ways the shop owners are suffering because of the system.

Also to acknowledge their suffering is not to say that their suffering is equal to the suffering of their workers but rather we need to identify that everybody suffers in capitalism (except the very rich/elites).

The way to fix this is to stop tipping altogether. This will hurt the workers for sure but their suffering is necessary in order for things to change, at least under the current system.

Or alternatively, we can try and abolish the system altogether.

[–] Atomic@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

"There's no way to prevent this" - Says the only country where this happens regularly.

It's not a "Capitalism" problem. It's a USA problem.

[–] Rolder@reddthat.com 1 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

I mean, tipping culture only seems to be a problem in the US. Countries in Europe and what have you are fine and they are still capitalist.

[–] just_an_average_joe@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 31 minutes ago (1 children)

Sure tipping for things may not be applicable in eu. But here's another example: imagine the first person who got a loan cuz they wanted to buy a house but didn't have the money at the time.

The bank who lent the money did a nice thing. Other banks and people started doing the same. And because people had access to more money, the price of houses increased to match with it.

Despite the fact that those people don't actually have that money and now it is a requirement. Nobody can afford to buy a house unless they go into debt. Again this is capitalism and the free market in action.

The reason tipping so "people can have livable wage" is not a thing in the EU is because the EU does have a livable minimum wage.

The concept of minimum wage is inherently anti-capitalistic. It is against the principles of free market.

[–] Rolder@reddthat.com 1 points 15 minutes ago

So the answer isn’t simply “Abolish capitalism” the answer is actually “Capitalism but with logical rules and regulations”

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 1 points 39 minutes ago

Those countries weren't founded by slavers...

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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 135 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I know tipping culture is extreme, but I've never seen 100%. I don't think this is real.

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 hours ago

I've never seen 25% until 10 years ago

[–] donuts@lemmy.world 75 points 5 hours ago

I can't find the original image, it's just been reshared dozens of times on Xitter, Threads, Facebook and Reddit, but nobody is adding context or naming and shaming.

So yeah, probably just ragebait.

[–] tomi000@lemmy.world 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Tip 1% whenever they dont offer a realistic choice

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 2 hours ago

I always tip under 20% if they start with 20%...

These clowns ain't gonna shame me, I got none

[–] IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

This is clearly fake, right?

[–] ThomasCrappersGhost@feddit.uk 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Dunno. I’ve seen this in the UK.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I thought y'all didn't have a tipping culture?

[–] ThomasCrappersGhost@feddit.uk 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

We don’t, we will tip outstanding service for a meal say, usually just a few quid, but it’s slowly becoming more of a thing, like this at some busy bars in cities.

[–] CaptPretentious@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Even if it is, at current rate, one day we'll look back and go "remember when tipping was optional, and less than 100%, we were truly spoiled back then"

[–] zkfcfbzr@lemmy.world 51 points 5 hours ago (6 children)

Back when 15% was considered standard I liked tipping closer to 30%, but as a direct result of the push to try to make 15% seem low I no longer tip more than 15%.

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[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 97 points 6 hours ago (3 children)
[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago

Be sure to make eye contact as you type in 0.00

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[–] 0x0@programming.dev 17 points 4 hours ago

That's an immediate $0.

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