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Also, the first class tickets for the train were totally worth it.

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[–] UNY0N@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Welcome to Europe! I moved to Germany almost 20 years ago, and holy batflaps am I happy about that choice.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 19 minutes ago

I hope I will be as happy. Thanks!

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 32 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)
[–] IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 21 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I'm both glad you made it out and jealous I don't have a similar history with another country to move to. You're a great parent for everything you do for your daughter. Hope the last bit of the trip went smoothly and you find a job quickly.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 points 16 hours ago
[–] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That’s some Grade A dad’ing Squid! Happy for ya, proud of ya. Best of luck over there!

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago
[–] Nfamwap@lemmy.world 13 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Welcome to the UK. And if anyone asks, you ain't seen me, right?

[–] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Klear@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago
[–] whome@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I just took a look at your post history to see the origin story to this, seems to me you ARE Lemmy?! Every other post I saw seems to be from you...

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 16 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, Lemmy is basically just Flying Squid and The_Picard_Maneuver. The rest of us are bots and/or figment of their imagination.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 8 points 15 hours ago

Can confirm. I am a imagination of FlyingSquid.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 8 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I seriously think airlines are a sham after riding a bunch of trains.

On a train:

Seats are massive. First class wasn't like 5x the ticket price. No charge for luggage. No wack-ass TSA giving you conflicting rules about if you should keep your shoes/belts on or not. You want to rent a room so you can sleep, do it. You wanna jog from one end to another? Sure.

Unfortunately in America, trains don't fully connect to most places. And because of the price, attracts some real skeevos who leave the place a mess. In most other countries, my god. It's beautiful.

[–] Lexam@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

I don't disagree but it's really hard to find a train from New York to London.

[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org 9 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

The UK just gained several precious people. Good for them!

Lemmy will be okay if you don't keep posting as much as you've been. Do whatever you need to do to set your family up there.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Someone once said that emigrating is trading one set of societal issues for another. If you’re happy with the trade, awesome.

Good luck in your new homeland.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 33 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, and I am trading the societal issue of possibly having my daughter tortured for being queer for the one of that not happening.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago

That is a valid choice.

[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 6 points 15 hours ago

Ohh that's a rough ass flight for a teen :) good luck over there!

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Hey, congrats for taking that big leap, even if it is to the UK (having lived in a couple of places in Europe including over a decade in the UK, my opinion of the UK is pretty low).

It takes a lot of guts to take yourself out of the environment you know (with all it's implicit expectations of "this is how people behave") and move into a different environment were people don't value the same things, expect the same or behave the same.

Good luck!

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 24 points 20 hours ago (7 children)

Thankfully, due to my British father and grandmother, I know some of the basics. But I still have a lot to learn. Thankfully I've got us registered with an NHS clinic (waiting to hear back from them) and just got our new phone numbers.

[–] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 14 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Wow, you actually did it! I remember you laying out your plan here on Lemmy a few months ago. Kudos to you

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 6 points 15 hours ago

Yeah it was a fun journey to watch it all unfold!

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[–] Etterra@discuss.online 29 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't know if England was the best choice, but right now I think Neptune is probably better than here.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 30 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

It was my only choice. I have citizenship here. (Technically I am a "British passport holder" until I go to a citizenship ceremony and say God Save the King and I'm not a spy or something, but whatever.)

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 10 points 16 hours ago

Better to pledge loyalty to a king who's a figurehead than one with actual power like we have here.

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[–] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 17 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Good luck, I hope you and your child find the UK to be less shitty than America. :)

Having emigrated to France with my kids in 2017, I think you're making a good decision.

[–] PlantJam@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

Was this a similar move as with OP? Meaning you had preexisting ties to the country before moving?

[–] Shoe@lemm.ee 28 points 1 day ago

Welcome to the UK! Not sure on your final destination, but I'm based in South West England. Please feel free to reach out if you need any help or guidance, especially if you're heading down this way 🙂.

[–] Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 12 points 22 hours ago

Welcome to the UK :)

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