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I have fully transitioned to using Lemmy and Mastodon right when third party apps weren't allowed on Spez's place anymore, so I don't know how it is over there anymore.

What do you use? Are you still switching between the two, essentially dualbooting?

What other social media do you use? How do you feel about Fediverse social media platforms in general?

(I'm sorry if I'm the 100th person to ask this on here...)

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[–] multifariace@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Nothing has replaced what Reddit was. I use Lemmy for the nostalgic feeling but it does not compare.

I followed news, politics and science, mostly. The community on Reddit used every tool available to create credibility. Then profiteering tore it asunder.

The only other social media app I ever use is Facebook. But it's purely for connections to friends, family and local hobby groups.

[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I was never much of a social media guy, especially after moonlighting one summer as a social media marketer on Twitter and Instagram (really, really kills it for ya), but I was a redditor for a while.

I swapped over to Lemmy exclusively during the API fees, but to be fair I was already getting frustrated by the service. The karma farming was just too much, so many stupid reposts of the same stupid made up wholesome stories and crap. I think I only miss r/comics and r/idiotsincars, the later requiring a critical mass of people to actually be worthwhile.

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

I only use lemmy. Unless youtube counts but I don't think so.

[–] lazycouchpotato@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Mostly Lemmy. Mastodon sometimes – I have to spend more time there muting RSS bot accounts to find stuff of my interest.

Dipping my toes into Bluesky as well. So far it's been good – very polished experience.

I also lurk quite a bit on Tildes.net.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Lemmy and BlueSky (primarily Lemmy).

BlueSky’s mobile app is such a clone of twitter, transitioning is nearly seamless for the average user. I tried mastodon at first, but it felt pretty rocky and different (and I’m rather techy).

Between BlueSky and Voyager for Lemmy (I was an Apollo user on Reddit), my user experience hasn’t changed at all – except for the pleasant lack of bots and Nazis on both platforms.

[–] DerpyT@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Friendica is also nice and looks like 2008ish Twitter but not so full, sadly. For reference if anyone interested:

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[–] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 month ago

I use rdx.overdevs.com to read reddit still as it has a lot more fashion, art and vegan content than here, but the only places I interact online in that way anymore are the Fediverse and Fragrantica, but the latter only really for perfume related stuff.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yes but I am enjoying Bluesky a lot this week in the wake of its rapid expansion while that hellpit Twitter burns. A really nice feature is that they have block lists, where someone makes a list of MAGA people or whatever and you can block them all at a click.

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[–] eatham@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago

I don't really have a main social media right now, I use lemmy masto and yt tho.

no, not really. i kinda quit social media in the sense that i no longer use reddit, instagram, twitter or snap. they were all just too addicting. i log into lemmy once in a while, to see what's new, since there are some nice niche linux related communities, but apart from that i'm only on youtube (when i'm eating) or on discord (few small-ish servers). i don't really care much for news or polictics, and if i really need to know what's going on, i check the front page of wikipedia or ask my friends. i'm still struggling with using my phone more that i'd like, but this week i took a break from discord and youtube, with mixed results so far (see: i'm on lemmy), but overall it's been really freeing to not be on them and have a bunch more free time.

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[–] joanne@aussie.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lemmy is my main one, yes. I browse Pinterest every now and then, though I'm not sure how many would consider it social media in the traditional sense.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

I feel like that would compare two very different types of social media:

  • Consumption oriented: Platforms which mainly tailor to consumers, like Tiktok, Pinterest, Instagram and Youtube.
  • Collaboration oriented: Platforms where engagement with the content and discussions are encouraged, like Lemmy and Mostodon and their proprietary equivalents.
[–] crash_thepose@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Mastodon mostly.

[–] Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy and youtube are my mains. Which is used more really depends on my mood and how active is lemmy that day.

[–] FriedRice@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

For me its startet for some years ago with Mastodon,then I grew into the fediverse (I didn't know anything about it) and now I use loops.video (stil its made for doomscroling) mastodon, Lemmy and pixelfed. Loops I think I'm to old to use that much, (to fast for me) but else I'm really happy with the social media. I haven't been on a mainstream SOME for 3 years.

[–] charonn0@startrek.website 3 points 1 month ago

Just lemmy in a browser for me. Never used facebag or twatter or others besides reddit.

[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 3 points 1 month ago

Youtube

There are so many really good animators on the platform

[–] menemen@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

I am so sorry, but several of my favorite journalists are still on Twitter.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy and Mastodon as well for me. With a little bit of discord and matrix for my projects' realtime chat

[–] KRAW@linux.community 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy. For more niche communities that don't exist on Lemmy I use RSS feeds on specific subreddits. Discord for chatting with friend and other niche communities. LinkedIn because I'm in academia.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

i also use youtube and discord, but I am looking for an alternative platform. Because to be honest, they kinda suck. I'm only there because other people are there.

Other than that, Lemmy is the main thing I use. I love it because it just does as I tell it to. Can't be much more simple.

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[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It wins by default but only because I never liked the Twitter/Mastodon/Bluesky-like infinitely scrolling threads and only use Discord to follow some artists.

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[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm pretty much using TikTok and Lemmy. Lemmy because of ability to have filters and accessibility options. TikTok for the same reason plus much more likely to get videos of creators who are not all about money grabbing and care about LGBTQIA and nerodivergent people genuinely. Haven't found any other app that does that.

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[–] eighty@aussie.zone 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Similar situation. I quickly glance between Lemmy and Mastodon and only use ~~old.reddit when I'm on my PC~~ (just realised I hadn't really used it since I've been making an effort to engage with the manga communities on lemmy) . All my friends and favourite artists seem to use Instagram so I only use it out of necessity for messaging and quick inspirations (I tried using Cara but I found the app somewhat slow and disliked that it wasn't federated, so I could see it having a very low lifespan. I saw it as a poor move for artists to move to it solely on the promise of being "anti-AI" without any redundancies that a de-federated option would have)

[–] Commiunism@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy is my main but I still use Reddit sometimes for more niche subreddits.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I only use Lemmy. Never had accounts on any of the other social media platforms apart from Facebook more than a decade ago. I've been checking reddit, reluctantly, here and there recently to have something to post to my communities. Apart from that, it's been Lemmy only since the exodus

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Very interesting. I do still see many posts originating from Reddit around here, presumably exactly because of that reason.

But I must tell you, making your own funis and ideas and putting them onto Lemmy feels really great.
It feels like an invitation to discuss the topic with others and come up with new ideas, instead of feeding other peoples algorithms and keep them hooked on the site.

It feels much more like interacting with real actual people, even if there are less on here.

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[–] thingsiplay@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

"Dualbooting" is a nice analogy, haha. No, I switched completely over from the previous main ones: No Reddit and no Twitter. But I still use dedicated forums for specific topics/software, such as a Romhacking (retro game modding) community or RetroArch forum. Unfortunately not everyone is on Lemmy (or Mastodon, but I stopped using Mastodon too). So for me it is Lemmy/Beehaw and a few standalone forums.

Wait I also started using Discord from time to time, but dislike this as a main application. There is an alternative called "Matrix", which is similar to what Lemmy and Mastodon are respective to their technology. But its not that widespread, so stopped using it too. Maybe will comeback to it. I know there is BlueSky, which is a main competitor to Mastodon. Just didn't have enough interested into it yet, as there is Mastodon already.

  • Reddit <> Lemmy and Kbin
  • Twitter <> Mastodon
  • Discord <> Matrix

(I’m sorry if I’m the 100th person to ask this on here…)

Fine with me, as I didn't saw any of the 99th person asking this before.

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I feel that Matrix and Lemmy go really nicely together. There are already some integrations, which let you link from your Lemmy to your Matrix account.
It's nice that Lemmy directly tells you "These messages are not secure" and recommends Matrix.
If this were driven by a cooperation, they would say "blablabla it's so secure you can trust us with your data blablabla" but no! This is the fediverse, where people can do what they want to!

Over here, they are self-aware and link to Matrix, which is so refreshing. This kind of open collaboration between projects is beautiful I think.

Also yeah, Mastodon feels weirdly... empty? I use it sometimes and despite it's apparently larger userbase, I cannot seem to find a good starting point.
Then again, I also didn't quite understand Twitter, so maybe that's it.

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[–] WhyAUsername_1@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My best friends are my social media

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[–] Unknown1234_5@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I pretty much only use Lemmy (and loops but it's not really finished yet) but I have mastodon too.

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