Asklemmy

I've traveled to 50 countries and lived in 7.

I don't think being well traveled is about distance or number of countries visited... For me, it's more about whether you've traveled independently and built some skills of adaptability and resilience to deal with new situations. That can happen with as little as one new foreign country.

For me, a well-traveled person is someone who can deal with all the stress, uncertainty, and chaos of travel. That can be as simple as ordering food in a language you don't speak, or deciphering an alphabet you're not familiar with to get on the right bus. Heck, it can happen in your own country, some times.

But once you've done something like that, the kind of travel skill you develop is pretty universal. Not to say no place in the world will ever throw you a curve ball, but once you accept not everything works like it does in your country and you learn to stay cool under pressure when nothing makes sense, you're well on your way to being able to thrive anywhere you go.

I see it as a state of mind. Because a “well traveled” person typically have a good understanding or appreciation for culture not their own. They can see both sides and form opinion based on the world as a whole and not just the country they live in.

I think it’s why people say to go travel to broaden your horizons. It helps make you a better person.

I’m US based. I’ve been to Mexico, Italy, and Ireland. I still feel like a dumb American that thanks of Europe like Disney land. Like it’s just a place to take vacations and not a place where hundreds of millions of people live and work and have complete lives.

I don’t feel well traveled at all.

It’s not distance, it’s more frequency.

In a lot of the US, you pretty much just have to have visited virtually any country where the predominant language is not English or Spanish. "Well traveled" is a much lower bar here than it would be in other places.

I'm going to just pluck this out of the air and say "been to more than three other countries" is well travelled - for someone in the first world that's not difficult and is an important thing to do for broadening the mind. Some people might say that's a low bar, but there are enough that would say it's too high as well which makes me think it's probably about right.

I'd say it's not as much about how far as how many different places.

This is a very objective question, but I'm going to say you must travel to 4 countries, 2 of which must be across an ocean, and 2 have to be to countries that speak different languages than your native language. Feel free to mix and match.