Tipping culture is just a way that disproportionally affects workers in such a way that there should be a mathematical equation that compares titty size of the waitress to how much you will tip. Theres a reason why people think there is misandry in fields that require tipping. I try to not tip whenever I can unless I am friends with the people there. Why? Chances are, you get paid a minimum of 10+ an hour wage and you get pissy if I even think you didn't deserve that cherry on top. No I dont want to pay you more than I make an hour for serving my food. Its not up to me to decide how much you deserve for your efforts. Yes Ill be bitter, i dont care, i fucking hate tipping culture. Ill fight anyone that thinks otherwise... in a videogame of course.

Edit: also I want to give a shout out to BJs for being the most toxic environments for tipping. They only allow electronic payments on some proprietary website and it auto adds 20% and they cross their fingers hopeing you didnt see. Then it asks if you would want to tip ON TOP of that. If you bring it up to staff they will actually announce that you arent tipping. Like fuck you guys

[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I agree, I don't like to tip for blowjobs either. I also prefer to pay by cash for those.

Seriously though, I don't think I tip based on attractiveness. But I do tend to tip more as I get more drunk. A few of my friends even check how much I'm tipping if they think I'm too drunk and tell me to lower it. They've probably saved me around $100 in the last few months lol.