Yeah, romantic compatibility is a two way street. If they aren't feeling it, you're better off as friends. Trust me, you don't want to be in a relationship where one person isn't very attracted to the other. I've been on both sides of that coin, and it's all shit.

Don't pine for anyone. If you're a match, you both make each other feel amazing being together.

[–] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 26 points 3 weeks ago

It’s also ok to not be friends at all, if I’m looking for a romantic partner and it doesn’t work, find another, you don’t need to collect forced friends along the way