It’s worth noting that I’ve seen far more people thinking of citizens of North Korea as pitiful subhumans than support for the DPRK in general, and fewer still who support the DPRK extending to the ROK.

Which didn't disagree with my original post it was responding to and a statement that I agreed with in a now removed post that also pointed out how some users had become so irony poisoned that they had actually started believing their own nonsense. You then started quoting theory at me while claiming that nobody actually believes what they're saying and cherry-picking my comments and calling them "ableist," alongside a mod who also straw-manned me, accusing me of being media illiterate and supporting the US's forever war in the Middle East based on a single statement about the worst of the extremism on the entirety of Lemmy that we have to deal with, which pales in comparison to the right-wingers of the rest of the internet.

Now you move on from unsupported claims of racism to unsupported claims of transphobia, and I still don’t know what you’re actually talking about.

Show me on the straw-man where I claimed anybody was transphobic instead of saying that you were sea-lioning and cherry-picking my comments to ignore my point that I've stated several times now, like the transphobes on other social media platforms do.

In short:

As for the Hexbear defederation, aye, that was the justification the admins over at Hexbear gave when they defederated from Blahaj suddenly and without warning while the admins of Blahaj and Lemm.ee were in talks with their userbases about the large volume of complaints about Hexbear users' behavior and calls to defederate from Hexbear. The rest of the context is that up until that point, the admins on all sides had been on good terms with each other and had acted on any issues the admins had had - including said incidents which had happened in the past, and that the threads on both Blahaj and Lemm.ee where the admins of both instances were gathering feedback from their respective communities were brigaded by Hexbear users spamming emojis on comments to the point where the admins on both instances had to hide all posts by Hexbear users.

To quote some of the complaints from various users across various instances at the time:

But the downside is that it's. Just. So. Exhausting. I fully agree that everything they discuss has a political undertone to it in some way. It feels like they just cannot turn off, and I always have to be on my guard when they get involved in any discussion, even if it's nominally about a completely non-political topic. Even when they're making high effort posts instead of spamming emojis and pig poop balls, every discussion feels like a minefield, where the slightest misstep gets you punished with a "here's a response that implies/outright states you're woefully misinformed at best and a protofascist nazi at worst, here's a link to an obscure book written by a communist scholar 50 years ago that you should read before even trying to discuss this topic." Hexbear getting involved in a discussion is the discourse equivalent of a group playing 4-player FFA Smash Bros. with items on and someone rolls up and demands 1v1, no items, tournament ruleset only.

Sound familiar? Because you should reread the entirety of the comment section on this post with that in mind. I think you'll find a lot of similar behavior in here. That quote of theirs in the middle is an excellent summary of my interaction with the mod up there.

It really feels like the people who grew up on 4chan and later came out as queer, but never learned how toxic that was

Hexbear is what happens when kids (I hope they're all in their early 20s or teens, because otherwise this gets much sadder) spend years reading on leftist theory but have zero real world experience. They get intense, volatile, argumentative and have no idea how those points reflect on themselves and in reality. This is why they go around prancing those absurd beliefs and fencing anyone who disagrees out, while also dogpiling and swarming communities that don't agree: They only know what its like to be leftists in theory... Unfortunately for them, their echo chamber is going to go on and be the equivalent of a left wing /pol/.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

To be fair, when you said you get enough sealioning from transphobes on other instances, that implies that there are transphobes on Hexbear. If that's not what you mean, then I apologize for misunderstanding. As for ableism, calling people "crazy" is ableist and shouldn't be done.

Regardless, when you spend a good amount of time complaining about Hexbear and other Marxists and Anarchists unprompted, you shouldn't be surprised by pushback. A good number of people on Hexbear are members of orgs and parties, at higher rates than other instances, so the idea that they just read theory and never touch grass is also pretty wrong.

Either way, getting extremely defensive and hostile when you deliberately attack other users is pretty toxic behavior.

[–] EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I never said that there were transphobes on other instances - I said that your sea-lioning behavior was alike that of transphobes on other forms of social media and then directly referenced Twitter and Reddit. As is the cherry-picking.

Also, unprompted? This entire thread, including the removed original comment, has been about the political leanings of Lemmy as a whole, and my comment was that we're so left-wing, that even our extremists are left-wing - a point that you continue to ignore. The only complaining about specific groups I've done has been the direct result of demands by you and others to specify who I mean. Should I have referred to them as extremists or maybe radicalists? Because that's what caused you to demand that I specify who I was talking about in the first place.

Again:

Reread my comments and the quotes about the defederation of Hexbear and have a look in the mirror: You and others here are guilty of the same behavior that caused people to demand the defederation of Hexbear from multiple instances.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The original comment was also out of nowhere, they just wanted to complain about the presence of Marxists (which they proceded to do throughout this thread), and which you are perpetuating to an extent. It was originally unprompted and continues to be.

[–] EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The original post was in response to the meme's statement that people hate capitalism but don't know that they hate capitalism, saying that there are few people on Lemmy who don't specifically blame the problems of capitalism on capitalism (in short, "fuck capitalism, all my homies hate capitalism"), with the criticism I read being directed at pro-authoritarian regime people, not pro-communism. The fact that people took criticism of those who handwave away the wrongdoings of oligarchies because they espouse to be socialist/communist as an attack on communists says more about them than it does the OP.

A perfect summary of their point and mine that I realized after being reminded that r/theDonald was a thing is that Lemmy is so leftist that our version of r/theDonald would be r/thePutin. Although, with the current state of the Republican party, that might be a more conservative leaning sub than one would expect...

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The thing is, on parts of Lemmy there is a widespread notion that it isn't the ones reading theory, joining parties and unions, and discussing with fellow comrades who are the real Communists. This notion, in my experience, has come entirely from non-Marxists, and I don't mean Marxists that haven't passed some vague purity test, I mean people who openly admit to not being a fan of Marxism or not being Marxists in general. These people usually have extremely simplistic views of Communism, yet think themseleves an authority on Communism to speak over people who have read theory and take it seriously. They also frequently misrepresent the views of Communists, and as a result run into friction when Communists either try to correct them or give into frustration and call them out.

When I say Hexbear, Lemmygrad, etc are Marxists and Anarchists, I say that based on the fact that I read theory and take it seriously. The idea that there are Real Communists out there that significantly diverge from those on Hexbear and Lemmygrad is not really backed up by anything. The consensus views of Hexbear and Lemmygrad are very standard for practicing Communist parties, outside of fringe ideologies like Gonzaloism.

What I'm trying to get at here is that by intentionally shutting yourself off of Communists, you start to form visions of what said Communists believe that aren't connected to reality, and the more you dismiss and block (be it by defederation, personal blocking, etc) the more distorted from reality this vision of the average Lemmy Communist becomes.

The fact is, Lemmy Communists hate Putin and the Russian Federation and see it as an incredible tragedy that the former Soviet Union went from a good, Socialist state to a brutal Capitalist country, but they understand that Russia has to fight US dominance in order to survive, and see that as a temporary good move. It's an "enemy of my enemy" situation, not enthused support, and yet by shutting yourself out you act like there is some Putin fanclub on Lemmy.

I dunno, this turned into a bit of a longer comment than I intended, my goal was more to get you to reconsider how you percieve Marxists and people you disagree with in general like Communists as it seems to be causing friction.