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I’m not trying to cause an argument but when Reddit pulled it’s bs - I said that’s enough. I gave up my Reddit addiction and didn’t open it or visit the site for over 30 days.

The tone and people on Lemmy is great. I don’t miss Reddit. But I miss the content types. For me Reddit was a topic related news source, a place for great discourse about those news pieces, a place where community members asked constructive questions or shared ideas/projects - and lastly a place for some very specific community types.

Over the last few days I noticed that the first 2 categories of content came over to Lemmy no problem. But the second 2 types I outlined above don’t seem to have come. I went back to Reddit this morning and it’s all still there. Certain types of posts just don’t happen on Lemmy, and on top of that many communities never came over (street_photography is a great example. They literally shut down a subreddit with thousands of users and created a new location in Lemmy/kbin, and instead of coming over the community just evaporated). Other communities are also non existent and some that do exist are simply just not enjoying the same types of posts. I like it here, I want to stay - but it’s difficult. Is anyone else having this issue?

Thanks for hearing me out.

TLDR: all of my communities seem to link posts only, many types of posts just don’t seem to happen here.

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[–] relative_iterator@sh.itjust.works 233 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Make the posts you want to see. I’ve posted some questions in some niche communities here and I get well thought out responses and discourse.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 125 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Best answer, Lemmy, like all social media follows the 90-9-1 rule of social media. Of 100 people, 90 will lurk, 9 will comment, and only 1 will actually post anything.

There are people in the communities that want to talk, but you gotta be the one to post.

Hey take it as your opportunity to become a name in a community!

[–] austin@aussie.zone 20 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I don’t know how someone can lurk without the urge to post something or comment, that must take willpower

[–] sparky1337@ttrpg.network 21 points 1 year ago

Was on Reddit 15 years, left in June. It was definitely a build up, but I eventually posted every day.

Not healthy, so I scaled back. I post when I have something worthwhile. Otherwise I just contribute comments. And even then I erase half of them because they aren’t helpful or contributive.

[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

idk where these statistics come from, but the 90/9 ratio may come from the fact we don't comment on every thread we read, and not that 90% of users never comment

[–] freebee@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Sometimes just trying to avoid "someone on the Internet is wrong!!!" anger engagement tbh. Lurk, think react, think again and just scroll on instead

[–] u202307011927@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Or, like, not really knowing how to express oneself. I've got a lot on my mind to share in specific ~~subs~~ communities though it's difficult as I don't feel like knowing who I'm talking to

[–] Engineer@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 year ago

I don't know what our percentages are, but I think we're much more content skewed then the rest of socal media

[–] Disgusted_Tadpole@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Sounds like a motivational speech and I love it.

[–] The_Eminent_Bon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Don’t let your dreams be memes as they say it today