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Marriage is not a fix for anything it's just a definition we give for two people that want to hold hands endure life together and I use endure on purpose. Since it's the good and the bad that comes with it. To many people especially men raised on 1950's fantasy think marriage is about getting something but really it's about giving something sometimes everything for your family. So they get mad when both people in the marriage have to work but for some reason they think just because house work was gender coded to be women's work they expect their wives to do that on top of everything else.
Marriage is no longer man and wife it two partners coming together to face the harsh reality that is our world. That means doing your fair share not being asked to do the damn dishes. Trading back and forth who is going to be the rock and who is going to be the one holding on to the rock. So they don't get pulled under.
long story short your coworker is a dumbass that just wants things handed to him. Just because he checked a box that said I'm married now. where is my happiness.
Also I have been married for a long time and I will tell you. you go through phases. You will fall in love with your partner then after time you may fall out of love for a bit and then after some more time fall back in love again. But the whole time they are your partner, your family you just can't imagine them not being their. That's marriage.