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submitted 2 days ago by Instigate@aussie.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

My wife has been on a rom-com binge over the last year or so and something I’ve noticed when I’m vaguely paying attention or walking past is that almost every single rom-com features people who are, at the very least, middle to upper-middle class. These characters all live in gigantic houses/apartments, have beautifully sparkling brand-new cars, take month-long vacations to their beachfront properties… it’s just so unrealistic and out of line with the life that the vast majority of us lead.

I understand some concepts - large rooms are easier to film in, rich people own nice things that set a beautiful scene, it’s not interesting to discuss financial issues all the time etc. but this seems (from my anecdotal perspective) to almost be a rule of the genre.

Some more food for thought:

https://www.digitalspy.com/movies/a867107/rom-coms-diversity-wealth-income/

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The Notebook is notorious for this.

It's "hero" has big stalker "I'll kill myself to punish you if you dont love me" kind of vibe.

Lots of women fucking love this movie and it makes me sick because the relationship is SO unhealthy.

this post was submitted on 28 Jun 2024
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