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[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 119 points 5 months ago (92 children)

Maybe it's my interest in economics, but American life is so expensive in part because Americans are willing to spend a shit ton of money because they think they're supposed to. It's like we're all enamored with the idea that bigger and more is better just because someone said so. And then we complain about things being unaffordable like corporations aren't trying to fleece us for all we're worth.

[–] aseriesoftubes@lemmy.world 98 points 5 months ago (84 children)

I’ve heard it said that Americans purchase based on the maximal use case as opposed to the typical use case. As an American, that description makes so much sense. As an example, I live in an area where there are a lot of hills and it snows rarely, but just about everyone who can afford a 4WD SUV has one. Heaven forbid they can’t drive around on those 1-2 days a year that it snows! Meanwhile, they get shitty gas mileage driving to work the other 300-odd days of the year.

[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 44 points 5 months ago (78 children)

The maximal use case! That's a good way of thinking about it!

I'm struggling with my SO to buy a reasonable house in a high cost of living area. They want a massive 2000 Sq ft monstrosity because we plan to have a kid soon, and I'm thinking 1500 is more than enough. They're reasoning it's we need space for each other and entertaining. My reasoning is I want to eat out at the nearby fantastic restaurants nearby more often and buy cheese and wine and stuff.

[–] zeekaran@sopuli.xyz 32 points 5 months ago (2 children)

The more walkable the location of the house, the less space you need because that space is outside your house.

[–] azimir@lemmy.ml 20 points 5 months ago (2 children)

US cities are rapidly running out of 3rd places. There's almost no neighborhood commercial centers with a cafe and a pub/bar that you can visit for extended periods of time.

The net result is that the home and the workplace are the primary locations we can spend time in.

[–] GhostFence@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Running out of 3rd spaces? LOL you only see those in museums now. See the smilodon exhibit next to the woolly mammoth exhibit and next to that is the American 3rd Space exhibit!

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 months ago (3 children)

That somehow sounds like the primary space people spend time in should be a bar and not their home. That's insane. Though maybe it's some kind of an extrovert dream.

[–] azimir@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 months ago

That's quite the straw man of my statement. You've read a ton into what I wrote.

Given that, I get to turn right around and say "okay, then we'll have no absolutely no places outside of work and home. All supplies delivered to a drop box on your doorstep so introverts never have to talk to a human."

My point was that communities historically have had places where people can choose to go and spend time in the shared space. Common examples of these spaces include cafes and bars/pubs. Geez you made me have to be stupid pedantic.

I enjoy going to shared public spaces and businesses that welcome sitting and relaxing. So sue me. I also make friends with every housecat, dog, hamster, and houseplant (if no pets are available) at parties I get roped into. I am, at best, a light duty introvert.

I spend way too much time in my house because going out to places in the US is extra work. The accessibility of places to sit and relax around my neighbors is next to nil. This isn't true when I get to visit international cities that aren't capitalist car-centric hellscapes. There, I walk to nearby places to sit and enjoy my city, not just my apartment. The world should have places to be outside the home, even if hiding in your four walls is both an introverts dream and a capitalism goal.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

No, they're just saying it would be a part of that space. Like with a veterans club. You don't have to buy anything to be there. (Of course you do need to pay your membership, which is why we're talking about spaces that are just funded as a government item)

[–] GhostFence@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Meanwhile COVID loves extroverts!

[–] MudMan@kbin.social 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I mean... it depends on what you mean, I guess? Even if I hadn't spent the pandemic lockdowns comfortably holed up in a small apartment, it's worth noting that big-ass houses typically have yards while small apartments do not.

I guess if you mean "having shops, bars and restaurants within walking distance" that can maybe work, but otherwise that doesn't seem to track.

[–] zeekaran@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Ah yes the private yard, another anti third space.

Public parks. The city even does your landscaping for you.

[–] MudMan@kbin.social 1 points 4 months ago

I don't really know what this conversation was meant to be about at this point, and after re-reading the thread in order a few times I think you don't either.

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