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What you are feeling is natural and relatable. You need to find a balance and define your threat model.
Privacy maximalism and/or FOSS maximalism etc is natural impulse when you first begin to grasp just how quietly exploitive, invasive, and commoditized the modern internet is. But it also leads to burnout and can be isolating if you are too rigid about it.
Define your threat model, and your priorities. Accept that perfection is not attainable and do the best you can. It’s less overwhelming.
My advice:
This is really great advice, I guess the middle ground has always been a bit of a struggle for me.
This echoed for me, I'll remember it:
The most private thing you can do is to not participate at all /s
With that said, I largely agree with your points. There needs to be a good reason for the OP to continue their journey