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This is a quote I’ll try to remember, and will probably forget by the time I get into a conversation.
I'm listening...
Really? Why do you think that? Is it something you struggle with? Are there situations in your memory where you think it is especially applicable?
It’s just something I need to get much better at. I’ve come pretty far from where I used to be, but being a good listener is something I still struggle with sometimes.
I see. What steps do you think you could take? How can you tell you struggle with it - have people mentioned it?
Well, the only thing you can really do is identify the behavior and self-correct. As for whether or not people have mentioned it…yeah, they have in the past.
And also, are you picking up on what irmoz and I are doing? Take notes!
You sneaky fucking bastsrds…well played.
How do you plan to self correct? What have people said?
You got me.