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What is your dark side/qualities and what do you "see" in others they are likely unconscious of? (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by cheese_greater@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

There's always a tension that exists in really telling people how your day is when they ask, although for close genuine friends, they can almost always tell even if they dont necessarily have the updates or knowledge of the situation necessary to be in the loop at least.

A true best friend is someone you can bring up this shit with and sit with you although its fair and a truism that everyone is limited by not having infinite stamina to listen to problems/problems/problems, ya