thestereobus

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[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago

This is the challenge

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Yeah. I mean, as an autistic man I can put myself in his shoes. People don’t really accept you and you always seem to say the wrong things or the right things at the wrong times. You want to be liked and accepted, so you accumulate wealth to try to have social standing and influence. But even as the richest man you still can’t really find your footing socially. It’s sad and I feel for the guy on some level.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Exactly. I had to learn this too. I am unusual in a number of ways. When I treat people how I want to be treated I am often mistreating them and damaging the relationship. People are different and need different things. You have to communicate rather than unilaterally apply your self-empathy.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 9 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Autism trauma is my guess.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 59 points 11 months ago

gestures broadly

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 4 points 11 months ago

It’s great but hard on the old heartstrings.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

My ex got me using Etta & Billie soap. It’s amazing. For deodorant I use Schmidt’s Lavendar and Sage. I’ve tried other things but always come back to this.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 year ago

It’s also usually lawyers that create these names. I worked on databases for IBM Cloud and they were all called “IBM Cloud Databases for Elasticsearch” and what have you. Despite it being an offering of the database on IBM’s cloud.

Since Elasticsearch is a brand name, the “host” corporation corporation has to present it as a product “for” the brand name rather than as the brand name itself to avoid implying that they are acting AS Linux or Elasticsearch or whoever is the third party.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh absolutely.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Check woot.com. I just purchased a 14” M1 Pro 32GB/512GB for $1499 brand new. They are fantastic computers.

Found it https://computers.woot.com/offers/new-apple-14-macbook-pro-with-8-core-m1-pro-2021z

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Serving static assets is not a big deal with a decent web server. You can get servers with unmetered transfer and the CPU and memory for static resources is tiny. Main reason to use a CDN is latency.

IF the static assets like images and video are being served by the application from other network sources or out of a database then a caching CDN would be a big win for sure.

[–] thestereobus@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just have a cache invalidation strategy.

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