nadiaraven

joined 1 year ago
[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 71 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

The moderator are giving Trump so much time. They won't control him at all.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It's on YouTube, on abc's news live video. It's still going on, but is probably almost over

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

Just like last time I will be holding my breath from November 5 till January 20.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 19 points 4 weeks ago

I'm not sure you're thinking of this in the most helpful way. A lot of times we are attracted to the kind of people that make us feel comfortable, and what makes us feel comfortable is what we have experience with. So for example if we have a toxic relationship with our parents, or with a first relationship, often we become attracted to people who embody similar toxicity. So its likely not that you are unattractive, but instead need to rethink why you have been attracted to the people who cheated on you. Maybe they all have attributes in common? Anyway, being cheated on sucks, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Last year my wife said "most games can be run on Linux now because of steam deck, I think I'll switch to Linux" and I said "well I guess I'm switching too" so I un-installed windows, and I've been full time since, even starting to self host jellyfin and nextcloud. She and I have both done linux in the past, but gaming was what was holding us back. There wasn't anything WRONG with windows per se , except maybe the looming threat of windows 11, I just really love linux, open source, and being able to easily lift up the hood to peek inside

I use arch BTW. And Debian, my first love.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

I'm with you. I meditate and I have aphantasia. I focus on my breath mostly, but as someone with adhd, my brain goes everywhere. The key is to not scold your brain for losing focus, but instead once you realize, note that you lost focus, and then gently bring your attention back to the breath. Meditation doesn't have to have an end goal or a focus point or imagery or anything, really. I just like to take note of how my body is feeling, what my mind is thinking, emotions that come up, etc.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I made it about this far as well. The thing that frustrated me the most was that early in the series they had to get from one place to another quickly, and they used that extra dimensional underground path or whatever, and they were like "oooooo, this is super dangerous, someone could definitely die!" and then later in the series it was just like, "yeah, we gotta take this route, nbd." So the stakes just felt really low and overall things got repetitive.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 178 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (13 children)

How many people did burger king get sick because they refused to pay him to stay home when he should've

Ftfy

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've contributed a little, but its a bit discouraging. It's not like can just map the whole city myself

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (10 children)

There are no street numbers in osm for my city, Bend, OR. It has a population of 100,000+, so I'm guessing this app is really only useable for major cities.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

I don't know that you are actually asking the question that you want an answer to. So here's an answer: it's okay for each of you to take the amount of time that you are taking to recover. But it also sounds like you both may not be understanding each other's feelings or feeling like your feelings are being understood. Couples therapy might be helpful. I also recommend "Non violent communication" by Marshall Rosenberg. It's essentially an extension of the therapisty thing of using "I feel" language.

[–] nadiaraven@lemmy.world 112 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Ha! My great grandma beat yours! She was born in 1898 and died in 2002!

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