Just reading that makes it sound like you hate women. I’m sure you don’t…but if you’re giving off that kind of feeling / vibe whatever you want to call it, then maybe that’s why you feel alone when you’re surrounded by women. People can pick up on cues like that and avoid people like that.
Also, ~~men~~ people need to talk more than in your example. This is the exact kind of behavior and thinking that contributes to male loneliness.
Enough information is shared for one man to put himself in the other's shoes, think about what he went through, and arrive at the same place for himself.
You just created an example where you imply it’s not okay for men to need more than this. That’s not healthy for you or anyone dude.
Seems like the common denominator is you. I hope you can work through that.