SpaceFox

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[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago
[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago (8 children)

"Ok, you ran to the bathroom out of all places,"

I wasn't really thinking. I was just very emotional and looking for somewhere private.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 days ago

Nope, more like everyone cleams to have known with NPD just because they didn't like them and only understand NPD as the 'bad man I don't like disorder'

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

And you Dr. Kevin know it was a "narcissistic relationship" whatever that is, because? Do you have a PhD from the University of Google Search? You read a few trash articles like "How to spot a narcissist in your life😱😱😱" and now you think you can diagnose entire relationships! That's quite something. I know doctors who can diagnose people but you can diagnose multiple people at the same time. Do me a favor and diagnose the relationship between you and your father oh wait, never mind.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 0 points 6 days ago

I agree with you. When I was first diagnosed I didn't believe it because I thought it was the type of thing only serial killers had. I would look into it and I heard people would say about people with NPD so it was hard to think of myself as like that. Overtime I came to terms with my diagnosis and started to rethink my views of others with a similar diagnosis.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So what would be your advice for someone with a cluster B personality disorder? Are we just supposed to be alone forever? Also, why do you even know what you experienced was "cluster-B abuse"? People just think that anyone they don't like has ASPD, NPD or BPD or something. "Phil who was kind of rude to me the other day, he totally has a covert psychopathic narcissistic cluster B personality disorder. I should know I watched 5 hours of Psych2Go videos"

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I've experienced this myself. No irl but on this Lemmy. I made a thread a few weeks ago asking "Why is NPD so stigmatized?". I wanted to why cluster B personality disorders were treated so differently to other things like depression or autism and the responsive were what you just described here.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Thank you so much for this comment. It's the most understanding one here and it really helps.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

"I’d be really curious about what is really means and how you manage or cope with it."

It's hard to live with. It's difficult to relate to others, your obsessed with your yourself and being noticed. It's like being you're every very own tiger parent.

It's all about how you see things. I make an effort to amplify for others and to understand that it's ok not to be perfect among other of things.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

This type of thing should be taught in schools.

 

I've had female friends and I've had male friends but for some reason I've noticed that females are more intimate and close to there friends then males are. Is this true for all male friends?

 

I don't know if anyone else has this problem but I have a really pacific issue. In general just I suck at talking. I find it hard to put my thoughts to words, I never know what words to use and I never know what to say.

I talk like xQc irl and the act of using words to hard I'm always slurring them out even tho I try not to and I have a stutter and a slip so saying thing is very hard.

 

Has there ever been a case where someone convicted of three or more murders was released from prison?

 

. The White, The Yellow And The Black (1975)

AKA 'Samurai' and 'Shoot first... Ask Questions Later'. A pretty funny and well written spaghetti western. Worth a watch if your looking for some light entertainment and a few laughs.

. Get Him To The Greek (2010)

Don't understand why films like 'Superbad' (2007) and '21 Jump Street' (2010) become beloved classics while this was forgotten. It's got the comedy of a raunchy late-2000's Seth Rogan like film and the action of a James Bond movie. The inclusion of Pedo Diddy didn't age well but that can be forgiven.

 

Is there a sub for ama's aka 'ask me anythings'? If not where do people post them?

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
 

I'm starting to think that my life is over and I don't want to live anymore. As of writing this I am a 23 year old woman with no qualifications or education. I have learning disabilities and my IQ is just 76. I struggle with things like talking, maths and spelling and I can't find a job.

When I was a kid I knew I was different. Things that were easy for the other kids to do took me ages to learn. Kids used to make fun of me because of the way I talked and in general I could fit in. As I got older my learning disabilities become more noticeable. I was diagnosed with ADHD and low intelligence and therefore struggled academically but my dad refused to put me in a special education program because he thought it would be an embarrassment. School was very hard for me. I would work my ass off just to get C's and B's and my father was very abusive. He would expect me to do well in school and if I didn't he would beat and punish me. I had to repeat the 7th and 9th grade but I eventually graduated but very poor grades and no qualifications. When I was around 15-18 started to do drugs like weed and alcohol just to cope.

I left my parents house when I was 19 and went to live with a friend. I have very little money as I'm addicted to drugs and my lack of education makes getting a job practically impossible. I don't see my life going anywhere and when I'm not on drugs I'm miserable. My brothers and sisters have done so much better then me and it makes me so jealous, angry and ashamed. I know this may sound cringe but I honestly can't do this anymore.

EDIT: I now have a job at Burger King as a cook. It's not glamorous but it's some money.

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