SpaceFox

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[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 20 hours ago

Have you ever considered using any other store? Swift shops are really good for clothes.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

I've looked online for advice for this problem and nothing has helped me more than this post. Thanks 👍

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"I generally buy almost everything online, but clothes are one exception to that"

I've been thinking. Should I open a clothes store? That's the one thing that isn't threatened by the internet. It's not like other things you don't know how something will fit you through a computer screen.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 day ago (3 children)

But that's the problem it's hard to know what your getting. For me all those measurements mean nothing to me.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

I really rely on those changing rooms. I know this may sound like a pity drag but as someone with shall we say "behind" it's super hard to find things that fit over my weste.

I would like to dedicate this post to all the amazing jeans and skirts that could have been worn. Your service who have been appreciated.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 29 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I hope he's enjoying a "succulent Chinese meal." in haven.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 day ago (7 children)

How do people get over that? How do they know it's the right size if they haven't seen it IRL?

If it doesn't fit then it's a lot harder to get a refund and + you now have the disappointment of waiting a few weeks or days just to find out they don't fit you.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -2 points 1 day ago

Hausner wasn't actually a sports journalist he just pretended to be but you do bring up a good point. I should have mentioned that. It's like what happened with Jeffrey Epstein or P. Diddy. They get outed for some stuff and there's a which hunt for anyone who's ever had any association with them.

This photo reminds me of the photo between John Wayne Gacy and Rosalind Carter, Jimmy Carter's wife.

 

Am I the only one who struggles with online shopping? Like with measurements for example, I don't know what there talking about or if the clothes will be the right size. How does everyone else get around this?

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 day ago

Hausner and his, Samuel J. Dieteman, murdered 8 people and injured 17 others between 2005-2006. Hausner was sentenced to death but committed suicide in 2013 while Dieteman was given life imprisonment and serves his sentence to this day.

 

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 0 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Sorry but this was very naive. Have you never been on the internet? All you ever see are people being made fun of for there grammar.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I don't understand why I'm like this. Ever since I was a kid I knew I wasn't like the other kids. Things that are so easy for everyone else are just so hard for me. I'm so glad things like speech-to-text exist or else I wouldn't even be capable of writing half the things I do.

I bet there thinking how stupid I am and how easy it was to spell. It's like school all over again.

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Today at work I was flipping some burgers as usual when a coworker yelled out to me "how to spell occupation" for some reason. She shouldn't have even been on her phone and I don't know why she asked me of all people to spell 'occupation' and why she needed to use that word in the first place is beyond me but that's not important.

I tried to sound it out I just didn't know how to spell it. There were like a bunch of other people they were all watching. I just broke down in tears then and there and ran to the bathroom. It was so embarrassing. I left like 3 hours early as I just couldn't take being there anymore. I can't stop thinking about it. I made myself look so stupid in front of everyone. I know I have to go back there soon but I can't handle the humiliation and + I'm going to be in trouble with the boss for leaving early. I really don't know what to do.

Update: I told my boss that somebody asked how to spell something and I didn't know how to so I got emotional and left. He was understanding but told me never to do it again. Seems like everything is ok, right? Well, he asked me who was on her phone and I told him so now I think that girl got into trouble and now my coworkers are mad at me for being a snitch. FUCK. MY. LIFE.

 

If somebody you knew like a family member, partner or friend told you they had NPD would you still talk to them? Would it change how you feel about that person?

As someone with NPD I'm always worried about how having NPD would affect me socially. It's so stigmatised and people are always talking about how dangerous people with cluster B personality disorders are. I'm dating this guy at the minute. I really love him but I'm worried about how he would feel if he found out about my NPD. Would he still want to see me after what you see online about NPD? Should I ever tell him? Should I just keep it secret?

As of now I've told nobody about my diagnosis other than a few people at job interviews. What I'm basically asking here is 'How will NPD affect your social life?'.

 

There's lots of things I like about Christmas but for me it's simple. I love the presents. Even if I don't like the present I love the thought of somebody thinking of me and putting hours into/using there own money to get me a gift.

 

Can your intelligence effect your speech and articulation? I found this interesting post on Reddit earlier about this topic. I really feel this post as someone with speech disorders and a intellectual disability I've wondered this before. Is it true tho?

 

 

 

Without a doubt a 1970s rockstar

 

Why is it that compared to other mental illness's like depression, ADHD, autism and anxiety people seem to be so hostile to NPD? I always see things about 'mental health awareness' yet this is never applied to personality disorders.

Just look up "narcissism", "NPD" or "narcissistic personality disorder" and the results are about how dangerous people with NPD are and how to spot somebody with NPD or if your ex boyfriend is a narcissist etc... etc...

I was watching this video earlier by a YouTube user 'ShortFatOtaku' called "Low IQ Twitter Discourse Awards!" and there was this one guy on twitter who said that if you claim advocate for the mentally ill you such do so with personality disorders as well. A statement I completely agree with:

https://youtu.be/3EJedJ8MhNA YouTube

ShortFatOtaku response with "wow your going to let that narcissist kill you and take everything from you?" I shouldn't have to explain how bad faith and unhinged that is.

Why do people think this way about narcissists? Having NPD doesn't make someone an inherently bad person. As someone who has NPD I haven't abused or manipulated anyone ever. Sure, I struggle with empathy, I have to make an effort to think about other people and ok I have a never ending need for validation but that doesn't mean I'm a bad person I understand I have a problem I didn't choose to be like this. Manipulation and grandiosity are awful traits that I have but they don't define me. I'm a good friend, I'm a good sister, I'm a good coworker and there are people out there who benefit from my existence. NPD doesn't have to define me I'm more then my diagnosis.

 

I couldn't find the photographer

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