Apytele

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[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 23 points 7 hours ago

This guy summarizes ^

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 17 points 21 hours ago

There are actually numeric codes to the Walmart prices iirc. It's not white supremacist nonsense or anything inherently political though. It was Something like ending in 66 cents means that's the last price cut vs 88 means there's like 1 or 2 more planned discounts or something.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

I got enough upvotes that I think most people understood. I'm sorry you struggled with it.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Going to see this Sunday night actually. My partner really wants to see it.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That's also why I'm being so active in this comments section; I don't want people reading about compassionate euthenasia thinking "wait isn't that how they torture people to death?" because it's not unless you're basically trying to use it that way. I've actually been briefly trained on what to do in an inert gas leak in some of the radiology safety modules for work because some of the imaging machinery uses inert gas and they literally tell you it's super easy to accidentally die that way because by the time you've even noticed you're almost dead.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Precisely. Wonderful if you've got highly painful terminal cancer though!

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 day ago (12 children)

They're not doing it correctly. The person needs to be cooperative and able to follow instructions, and they need to be using a specific type of mask that vents their breath with the carbon dioxide out.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 58 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (10 children)

They're not doing it correctly to be used as euthenasia. You need:

a) a person without COPD, chronic bronchitis, or any other disorder that has swapped their drive to breathe away from increased blood carbon dioxide / acidity and towards oxygen deficiency (fun fact, oxygen deficiency isn't what drives most people to breathe).

b) a cooperative person who can follow instructions to breathe out fully then take 2-3 full deep breaths

c) a nonrebreather mask which is a special mask with an outlet valve so that when they breathe out that air with all the carbon dioxide is vented while the nitrogen continues being pumped in. (Edit: This is if they're alone in a room or somewhere with excellent ventilation, or the nitrogen would be vented as well after a certain point and could harm the observers, that's why the sarcopod is a pod).

Sounds like they're fine on A, but not doing B or C.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah if you're cooperative and able to breathe all the way out then deep breathe those first few breaths it's actually the ideal way to go. You do also have to not have COPD or chronic bronchitis or another disorder that's swapped your breathing drive to oxygen deficiency instead of carbon dioxide excess. The rising CO2 / blood acidity from re-breathing the same air you put out is actually what causes the anxiety / panic of suffocation for most otherwise healthy people, not the oxygen drop. So if they were using a nonrebreather mask and doing this as compassionate euthenasia for terminal illness for people able to cooperate it would actually be one of the better methods.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 76 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

JFC "death by hurricane vs financial ruin" shouldn't be an internal debate.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Phallopenia, if you will.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 49 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)

I like that you mentioned we pick and choose who we remember and for what. Do you know why we don't read in elementary school about the person who discovered that the universe was mostly made of hydrogen? Her name was Cecilia Payne-Gaposchkin if you'd like to look her up and come up with any hypotheses as to why.

 
 

One of my favorites is:

"Never lie, never tell the whole truth, and never pass up a chance to use a real bathroom."

 
 

...ideally one that was both genuine and that you had the confidence and self awareness to interpret as kind. And for bonus points, what's one you've given?

I'm thinking back to the guy in group therapy years ago who told me he always thought of people who swore as not knowing any better words, but that I obviously knew better words and just also swore and even used them artistically and that's just really stuck with me. Sometimes I wonder how much of my self esteem has suffered not just because I've been told not to brag, but also because I'm extremely weird so the compliments I do receive often reflect that.

My bonus one (and I'm not sure how well he was able to take it) was that one of my fellow psych nurses was frequently and obviously terrified any time shit hit the fan, but that somehow still he'd never once failed to have my back. He'd be stuttering the whole way through an incident but I'd walk out of the med room with both halves of a B52 and he'd take one of the syringes without a second thought. He was literally the epitome of "courage isn't not being scared, it's being willing to face it." I should find a nice presentation of that quote somewhere to send him because I'm not sure I phrased it well at the time.

 

Looking for both philosophical and real world examples including situation-specific ones like one field of study that it would versus another where it wouldn't. Idk I'm bored as shit and wanna discuss something.

 

A big one for me is coming back and seeing my catatonia patient I was giving IV meals to and changing the sheets out from under a week ago now up in the dayroom participating in a few rounds of spades while munching on cookies and soda. I have to shove down that exact excited squeal from the video sometimes.

What've y'all got?

 

In clinical psychology the technique is called motivational interviewing, and the purpose is to help the person feel ready to make the change they need to by helping them plan out what they will need to change in their environment to make it happen. The trick is to avoid pressuring them in the exact moment and instead help them start imagining a more positive future as a very first baby step. You can do this by yourself right now if you want to, even if you know you're not ready to do what you need to.

Examples:

  • to quit drinking you might need to try to find a less stressful job or leave a shitty partner
  • to start exercising you might need to lower the energy required to start by leaving your workout clothes next to your bed, or you might need to get a brace for a joint so you can exercise more comfortably.

You don't actually have to be ready to do those things to admit to yourself that they're factors holding you back. Step one will always be learning to be honest with yourself, even if you're not ready to do better just yet. So, what do you need to happen in your life to be able to do that thing you know you need to do?

 

I've been looking into feng shui lately, specifically the concepts about what makes a person feel more safe or at ease in a space, such as relaxing or sleeping facing the entrance / exit.

While reading, I came across the guidance that you should always shut your toilet seat to prevent your good fortune from being flushed. The real reason you should keep it shut is so it can't mist shit-water all over your toothbrush every time you flush. Also so your pets don't drink out of it.

What other things did humans throughout history accidentally get right?

 

Every single time whatever I needed fixed was done within the week!

 

I'm trying to give someone advice on choosing a career that will suit them better than the one they're in and hate. I wanted to get together a list of good questions for them to ask themselves so they can use the answers to compare options like "do you prefer to work sitting or moving around," "do you want to not work weekends" etc.

 

Mine is fresh highschool graduates getting 2 weeks of training to go work acute, all-male forensic psychiatry. We're taking criminally insane men who are unsafe to put on a unit with criminally insane women.

...and they would send fresh high school graduates (often girls because hospitals in general tend to be female-dominated) in the yoga pants and club makeup they think are proffessional because they literally have 0 previous work experience to sit suicide watch for criminally insane rapists who said they were suicidal because they knew they would send some 18y/o who doesn't know any better to sit with them. It went about how you would expect the hundreds of times I watched it happen.

My favorite float technician was the 60 year old guy who was super gassy and looked like an off-season Santa. Everybody hated that guy because they said he was super lazy but he would sit suicide watch all fucking shift without complaining and he almost never failed to dissapoint a sex pest who thought they were gonna get some eye candy (or worse).

What's your example?

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