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Think about how you have treated both strangers and people you know to answer this question accurately. e.g.: If you say you like people but constantly avoid talking or doing any activity with other people do you actually like people?

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[โ€“] Vej@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

I assume everyone is a megaturd until proven otherwise.

[โ€“] pugsnroses77@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 months ago

I like people a lot and I think everyone's life holds value, for the most part and I'm pretty optimistic about most people. On a personal level, i dont like everyone i meet. i can't stand certain people, I don't like crowds, and I especially hate everyone on the road.

[โ€“] Extrasvhx9he@lemmy.today 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I like people but I hate crowds. Just find them annoying

[โ€“] Nemo@midwest.social 1 points 8 months ago

I like some people and dislike others. I neither like not dislike people as a general category. I am an introvert because I require chunks of solitude to function. I am outgoing because I enjoy socialization.

[โ€“] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

I'm not hyper social - like at work there are people who only like to go get coffee WITH someone, I don't even think about that, just go get coffee if I want it.

But I am comfortable with people and do like them & care about them, not a misanthrope. I think just because I am not usually alone, I like being alone. If I was usually alone, I'd want to hang out with people more.

Do I think we are a force for good in the world? No, I think collectively we are a big ol fuckup. But people can be so funny, so insightful, loving, helpful too. And I do think that over time we are improving, like two steps forward and one step backwards - the past was so violent, even in my lifetime my city has gotten much less violent. And we keep learning more about the world and universe.

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