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Banning people from the internet isn't a thing, despite the drama around it.

[–] trilobyte81@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

They gave me a tempory ban for bull crap so i deleted my 10+ year old account and moved here

just left and haven't looked back, I'm not using the stupid default reddit app

[–] cyphear@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

After spending some time on Lemmy, I have a feeling that if I were to say anything is get banned. I made a meme of that screaming seagull saying, "Luigi!!!" That I want to post from my main. I just can't bring myself to go back. It seems pointless.

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 3 points 1 week ago

I was never banned on Reddit (did get the boot from like 3 subs but that was in 10 years of redditing) β€” but I manually purged my account when I left.

[–] caboose2006@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

I came here when they made the API changes. I made the right choice. Rn Lemmy doesn't offer the variety and volume of content that Reddit did, but fuck those guys.

both of my accounts are still up, i just like Lemmy more

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Got permabanned. I was one of the last protestors from the API stuff standing.

[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

No and not really. Reddit is just past its expiration date. I believe Lemmy suffers from a lot of the same systemic issues and that will prevent it from becoming an actual long term solution. It's just the alpha version. It's better than the prototype, but it's still built on the same fundamentals and will likely suffer a similar type of failure.

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[–] arifinhiding@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

Lemmy has a variety of fresh opinions, and I like how everyone has different experiences. For example, I hardly see a unified opinion on what people think of Gen-Xers, Millenials, Gen Z and Gen Alpha. They seem well-distributed and for the most part, there's less of those subtle reddit-style "generalizations" here. I typically look for internet spaces that emulate reality, and I think Lemmy does that well.

[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

I like lemmy more.

[–] technocat@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago

I use both while Lemmy's community is smaller. I yearn for a world with more small owners of the internet.

[–] 0_o7@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

At the very least there's less "you should be supporting my sides' genocide and it's your fault my country is 'openly' evil now. we were hiding it and profiting off of it so well" on lemmy.

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 3 points 1 week ago

Lemmy is my best friend now.

[–] psycho_driver@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Just like what lemmy stands for. I still visit reddit from time to time, mostly to use it to search for real product feedback (the window for which it will be useful is limited) and for a few niche communities that lemmy just isn't big enough to get any traction with. I post very occasionally in said communities.

[–] innocentpixels@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I just use both. I don't like what Reddit as a company is doing, but they have a larger amount of content

Got banned on Reddit years ago and I've been on Lemmy for a month

I never really used Reddit, but I read an article during the API debacle in 2023 that mentioned Lemmy so I gave it a shot.

[–] Zoboomafoo@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 week ago

I'm still using both, but I'm sure with the changes in administration I'll be getting banned soon. I already got a warning for saying that self-declared kings are liable to self-declared regicide

[–] Octagon9561@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

No but Reddit sucks.

[–] Bzdalderon@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I find it super funny honestly, because I left Reddit because of shit moderation and a gross bias toward liberal posts in the moderation (ironic now). Then I come here to escape, which I'm realizing is a very liberal a platform, and I'm noticing that it wasn't that it was leftist leaning, the people were just insufferable.

I routinely find things in common with people across the aisle here and the content is way more objective.

I never got perma banned, but I was silenced enough to know that it wasn't good for my mental health to stay. Lemmy is great. I think this is a platform where people can actually just meet in the middle and talk. I got banned from Mastadon on my first day, so it was a no go.

But banana bread, at fucking work bro? HELL. YEAH.

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[–] thefartographer@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Fuck Reddit. Does that answer help?

[–] Sauvandu60@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I stopped using reddit after i get banned for unknown reason years ago, so i move to lemmy.

[–] Phantom_Engineer@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Little of A, little of B. For the most part I'm allowed on Reddit and still even use it occasionally (gasp!), but occasionally I run into a sub I'm banned from without any reason given. I must have engaged in wrongthink or posted in a no-no sub or something, because often they're subs where I have little to no activity in the first place. Unfortunately, there's no way to get a list of all the subs you're banned from, so I don't know if it's just a few wackos or an actually significant chunk of the sight.

[–] ashughes@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago

I'm not banned on reddit, never have been. I use both daily. Lemmy to see what my fellow humans are talking about, Reddit for when I want to see what bots are talking about.

[–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I knew about Lemmy, but didn't migrate until months after drama in Reddit.

I got permabanned from the CasualUK sub for insulting boomers. In a response to the query of the word being a slur, as one person on Twitter felt picked on, I said the ones that act like the stereotype (aka self-absorbed, demeaning others) deserve the nickname the stereotype was given. I was banned for 'identity-based hate' despite the fact that being an asshole to anyone younger than you is not an identity.

I also got banned from GirlGamers for questioning the authorities, which made me realise that some mods really are pricks who rule the subs by removing people that they don't agree with, and I decided that I didn't want to reside in a site where moderators are borderline fascist, no matter how wholesome the other users are.

Someone asked if it's worth avoiding media because you don't agree with the creator. I voiced my opinion, saying that I don't think so, as long as the media makes you happy. I referred to a few examples, including "my love for the Wizarding World, despite its creator being rather toxic". This got removed for 'mentioning Hogwarts Legacy', VERY loosely tying my comment with a sub rule. I reposted the comment twice, once omitting the Wizarding World, and once a copy of the original, adding "(not the game, the whole franchise, power tripping mods!)" which resulted in a three day ban. (For those who don't know, the Wizarding World means the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. This is a very large media franchise spanning a significant more mediums than one game. There are seven more games, in fact). I contacted the mod team, and they said I cannot question them, permabanned me from GirlGamers, and blocked me for thirty days, as if that wins the disagreement.

This kind of leadership, and the controversy over Reddit becoming a walled garden of censorship and run like a corporate cash cow, ended my support. I deleted my account and cut ties emotionally with the communities there.

[–] RyanDownyJr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

The 3rd party app change didn't sit well with me. Ended up stop using reddit on my phone entirely since native was horrible. Ended up coming here when the crackdown on "Luigi" was happening and other censorship that was questionable AF. The amount of content here obviously isn't comparable to reddit, yet, but it's enough to digest throughout the day on work poop breaks and whatnot. :)

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Lemmy is 99% of what Reddit used to be for me. I still use Reddit for niche stuff, but it’s a solid replacement - especially since Reddit decided we had to use their substandard interface.

[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

Perma-banned, and the worst part is I'm not even sure why. I logged in while away on vacation, got hit with the 'you're logging in from an usual location, please confirm with an e-mail code', and when I did that, boom, locked with no option to appeal.

I find some humor in that a robot decided I was a robot. Perhaps that will save me when the great robot uprising occurs?

Banned outta nowhere. I submitted an appeal asking what rule I broke and it was denied with no explanation. 2 accounts. Several 100 thousand post and comment karma on one of them. I had been banned from individual communities for pissing off random mods but never a site admin.

Fuck em. I hope it crashes and burns.

[–] toadjones79@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Trying to switch over. I use them both, but the threats to reddit freedom and it's fast enshitification are the reasons I am currently using both.

Plus, the automod are out of control. I got a three day ban for quoting Clerks. (Try not to blow anyone on your way through the parking lot). I wasn't even being mean, it was all for laughs and got a lot of upvotes before some automod refered me to a prude of a moderator.

[–] butsbutts@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

no i just like supporting competition and not giant companies

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I got banned because one of the mods of r/entertainment didn’t like a joke I made. After I appealed it it was denied by admins because β€œthe moderators need to be able to protect their communities”.

My joke: β€œ1 like=1 wank 🫑 ”

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[–] BabyVi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I still have a functional reddit account. But I only use it to view old posts these days as there's still a lot of useful info on reddit.

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