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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago

I’ve been way out of pop culture loop even before I started using Lemmy.

[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 2 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

That's why I'm here. This week, I learned who Kendrick Lamar and Drake are, and I feel stupider for it.

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[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not really. I find that most "pop culture" still gets talked about, it just doesn't get pushed into everyone's face by an algorithm.

If I drift away from my subscribed feed and look at the all feed, it doesn't take long for something or another about pop culture to pop up. And then if I'm interested, I go to the particular community that's talking about it and subscribe. The more I do that, the more interests start to show up in my subscribed feed.

For the most part, these communities all exist, there's just no algorithm saying "hey...you'll probably like this". And so you have to find them yourself.

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[–] pigeonholedpoetry@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Anything black/“urban” generally gets heavily downvoted on Lemmy. Haven’t figured out why. With all the other heavy virtue signaling you’d think it would also be pushed.

It’s one of the many things that aggravates me about my experience here. I went back to Reddit after over a year of only spending it here.

It has gotten better though.

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[–] hansolo@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Ooooh, we do need a Eurovision community if we don't have one already.

Edit: there's one at eurovision@Lemmy.world. I'll see you there!

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 4 points 23 hours ago

YES LETS GO! Subscribed. That place better be popping off in May.

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[–] ElectroVagrant@lemmy.world 43 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm of multiple minds on it, but the short of it is, I don't feel out of the pop culture loop, I know I'm out of it being around here.

On one hand I don't mind that, as I'm frustrated by pop culture essentially being mass market culture. It's not typically something that arises from people interacting and creating together from shared passions, it's produced and pushed by big businesses. Nothing novel about this observation or frustration, but it's a vibe I resonate with.

On the other I know if ever you want people to shift into a popular culture produced in the alternative manner mentioned, you gotta accept the transitional situation of entertaining the mass market culture alongside what you're trying to cultivate. It's too jarring for many to switch over entirely, and frankly there's not enough contemporary non-commercial culture to keep people's interest to justify any attempts at a complete switch.

So in a way, yeah, but also I'm more bummed that it's so difficult to create an alternative non-commercial pop culture.

obligatory'cause capitalism trying to monopolize everybody's time and make everyone feel they gotta make everything make money

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

This comment resonated with me a lot. I think I am in the same boat as you, and one of the reasons I am happy to use Lemmy as my primary method of social media/online engagement/whatever is that I am SO SICK of having algorithms pushing what I should like or be discussing. But also, people who are engaged enough to think like this are sometimes a bit too serious and (sorry to use a potentially dated term) I miss the normies a little bit, lol.

So in a way, yeah, but also I’m more bummed that it’s so difficult to create an alternative non-commercial pop culture.

This is so real. Unironically, I miss BBS communities where you had threads/subcategories for whatever niches you had, and then when something big happened it would get pinned to the top and EVERYONE would swarm to it. Discord tries to do that, but it's remotely not the same.

...should we go back to BBS?

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 23 hours ago

Piefed has Topics, e.g.: https://piefed.social/topic/sports-fitness

They will probably improve that in the future

[–] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

I specifically came here because I was uninterested in the pop culture chat that I was seeing in my socials. I want to talk to more people in less mainstream nerd culture

[–] BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

Hmm.. maybe? But I'm ok with it. All those things in your second paragraph are things I'd never care about anyways.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago

Yes and I love it

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I feel it, but to me it's kind of positive.

Like, I can belong to a social group without being bombarded with nonsense that is just noise meant to distract.

It's the same kind of liberation and control I felt when switching to Linux (since you mentioned it) - one decision, and the entirety of Windows drama is no longer relevant to me. I'm part of a much smaller, much more concentrated group of real people, in a sort of blissful silence to which I only admit the information and people I find worth my attention.

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[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We did have a Luka to the Lakers over on !nba@lemmy.world

Just saying.

I’m exclusively on the fediverse, I don’t feel disconnected from pop culture at all. There is a lot of politics and meta discussion, I’ll give you that

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Subscribed, thanks! I searched NBA on the global community search and got nothing, I wonder if it just wasn't federated on my instance yet.

I wish I was there losing my mind with the rest of you last week

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

It’s hard to figure out why some communities show up and others don’t on the search. It’s definitely a good idea to subscribe to !newcommunities@lemmy.world and other communities like it to make sure you don’t miss them when they come up. I think someone was working on a better search for Lemmy but it seems to be abandoned

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I made a community for survival horror games because I like them and like talking about it. Build it and they will come. Make a community to talk about things you like and those with similar interests will join.

[–] dumples@midwest.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I wonder if there should be a more generic pop-culture discussion thread to get it started. I know I enjoy a few aspects of pop-culture and would like to discuss. If you start it people will join

[–] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago (4 children)

This is what I'm kind of thinking too, like a r/popculture chat, but less related to celebrities and more about general non-political happenings. Maybe I'll message my instance admin and see what hosting something like that entails.

[–] dumples@midwest.social 3 points 23 hours ago

Well if you host it people can join.

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