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Please stop reporting all OF models as spam. If a post is off-topic, report is as off-topic. If community rules forbid OF models from posting, report that. If a user is flooding a sub with multiple posts a day in a row, that's a legit report as well.

Otherwise a post by an OF model is not in and of itself spam, even if it is made by a female with the temerity to control her own sexuality.

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[–] MoltenSaltReactor@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The anti-OF posters sound exceedingly hyperbolic. I'm certain there's a reasonable way to ensure OF/ManyVids/Fansly models are encouraged to post free content here without it consuming the entire site.

But posters demanding that all OF models be banned entirely sound hella unreasonable.

Go make your own community and ban OF models from it

[–] thedemon44@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Naw, the site would be better off simply banning only fans. Go to Reddit if you want ads.

[–] PutangInaMo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Man if this is the official stance for this sub I'm fucking out. Y'all enjoy your fucking thirst trap ads lol

[–] Wooly@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But who cares if it's technically an ad? You still get the porn content you previously wouldn't get. No one's forcing you to pay for the extra stuff.

[–] Punyu@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

I'll fap to many things, but 20 identical posts with stupid questions as title because it drives engagement, posted in random subs that it doesn't even remotely fit in, I won't fap to! I have my dignity!

[–] PutangInaMo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First because it's annoying. I sub to things for content, not links to "better content" behind a pay wall.

If I wanted that I'd just go get on OF and never come to places like this.

Second, it's disingenuous. I just reported another post as an example as to why it's bad for content. If they can scrape OF subscribers off of here, why would they reveal anything for free? Post a pretty face pic and throw their OF link in so you go spend there.

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some of us are exhibitionists AND like money lol

[–] PutangInaMo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And you can do both where they belong. It's advertising, spam, whatever you want to call it.

This isn't a paid service or subscription platform. If I want to seek you out to give you money I'll do that, but I'm not here for it and it should have its own sub dedicated to that type of content.

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why would I post nudes on a spammy OF community? You’re saying I should be excluded from every community besides that kind just because I have a Fansly.

[–] PutangInaMo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm saying if you so choose, please by all means share wherever you want that don't break any rules.

My understanding of these kinds of communities is that they are for voyeur, amateur posts. The advent of places like OF has muddied that intent.

Do I think you should not be able to post here with some kind of third party paid service link? Absolutely.

And if the admins decide that it is allowed? Cool man great you all, have fun. I'll leave though, because I don't like it. There are plenty of places on the internet to get this kind of content and I won't subject myself to spam links to see some boobs in my feed as I scroll through this place.

[–] fugepe@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Report and delete all OF models. They bring nothing of value

[–] AliceGreen@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

IDK sounds like spam to me.

[–] thedemon44@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It is most definitely spam. Only fans should be banned from the Internet.

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[–] neonfire@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's advertising. I don't care for advertising. It's like if all food subs were posts by Kraft, Taco Bell, Lays, Ben & Jerry's, etc.

If people want to advertise, that's fine, there are avenues for that. r/gonewild got ruined by being filled to the brim with OF ads. Other communities had to be made to recreate the space that gonewild used to be.

the basis for r/gonewild was a place for REDDITORS to "go wild", not for women who are paid to do so, to then create a reddit account so they can have a place to advertise their product (their photos and videos) for free.

[–] mean_bean279@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

r/Gonewild has specific rules about no OF posters. To the point that even if your post doesn’t mention OF, but you have one linked in your profile you get banned.

It made GW worse. Not just because OF creators have better, higher quality content that fits that sub, but also because as I pointed out once to them it was a dumb idea to block people who in most cases of OF creators don’t even monetize, or only do custom content. Otherwise the account is free to follow. Which is an important differentiation since diversifying where you post and where people can find you is a major thing.

[–] pornman42@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How is it worse? It's back to it's roots and literally back to the reason for the sub in the first place. You know how many "free" OF pages consist of spam about special videos and offers? I'd say practically every single one.

as far as higher better quality, I'd disagree. There's something special about seeing someone who you think you could have a chance with. Who could be that quiet coworker down the hall, or a nurse you've seen. What if it's your friend's hot older sister you always had a crush on? Those women might not have been egirls, or would ever have the time, or money to spend on good lighting and photo editing. They're regular fucking people, just trying to get off, not get paid.

Wanting to spread your product around to get people to pay for it is called advertising. It's nothing new.

[–] mean_bean279@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I can assure you none of those things is true.

First off, by pushing out OF creators all it did was make it so that an underground network was created on there instead. So the person you were seeing would have no mention of OF but would be a bot account meant to spam you with messages. It also created an issue where we saw so much damn editing of pictures and people posting others content to get around the rules. Hell, half of the posts were basically OF creators who made a second GW dedicated account that didn’t mention it but was designed to funnel views to their main.

Also, in the world of posting online it all becomes advertising. Even if not for money it’s all about putting yourself out there and getting validation, which requires people interacting with your post, which requires you to effectively advertise by posting certain content, doing things at certain times and coming up with fun titles. If you didn’t want advertising and a fair system to see all people then either having one GW account that posts only the content of the sub, or two having a system where everyone posts with the same title. The metrics show dumb titles work and it’s why if you scroll GW for any length of time you’ll notice that the same rehashed titles get used over and over.

Lastly, the people with OF accounts are also regular people, and often just trying to get off as well.

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Final comment about this because I wanna get off this topic as I’m getting triggered. I’m an exhibitionist AND I need to pay my bills. Idk why I wouldn’t combine those 2 things? I love what I do. I love posting nudes! I love talking to people online. Why wouldnt I try to do that as my job if I love it? The only people that will be seeing my link are the people that click on my profile and find it for themselves. Have a good day everyone 😂😛

[–] WickedWhipWieldingWizard@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I don’t want to see content from a community, I block it. If I don’t want to see content from a user, I block them. I’d encourage everyone to do the same.

With that being said, ignore the shitheads and keep your posts coming <3

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah i have been feeding the trolls. Time to move on and get back to the good stuff lmao. 💗💗💗

[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Your content doesn't suck at all. I'll give you that, you're not throwing off an OF vibe. Thankies

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[–] Fae@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Yeah THIS! You put time and effort in it. That makes it a goddamn job in my eyes

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[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Also…even if these are regular women who have 9 to 5’s that’s even a more reason to tip them! Gosh…be gentlemen!! Why are people here so selfish!!?? (Not OP…the others 🫠🫠🫠). As a pro, I feel like I want to support amateur women and make sure they are being treated well.

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[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When you assume everybody of a certain community is the same way, it's called discrimination.

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I COULD say lemmings are entitled broke losers but it’s not accurate. Many of you are kind gentleman (and other genders but my fan base is mostly cos heterosexual men)

[–] pornman42@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

replace this with a statement on black people then go look in a mirror and rethink your life. (Not the having an OF, there's nothing wrong with sex work. I mean the bigotry and calls about being discriminated against for not getting free ad space)

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let’s be honest…how many regular women are consistently posting nudity with no desire for any reward? I’m an exhibitionist but even I want to have a way to monetize the public viewing of my most intimate parts. Recipe for a dry ass sausage fest.

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