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[–] lurch@sh.itjust.works 92 points 9 months ago

No. Don't stop complaining. It's what got us here. Most improvements begin with someone complaining about the status quo.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 32 points 9 months ago (4 children)

It’s true.

Source: sadly, I am one of them.

[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 20 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Jokes aside living in the US is still a lot better than most places in the world. Mostly because most of the world is sht :/

[–] Fedizen@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

part of the reason most of the world is shit does have strong ties to US foreign policy

[–] monk@lemmy.unboiled.info 3 points 9 months ago

Most of the world is shit because of subpar economics. USA is truly special in some regards.

[–] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Very true, but it's just frustrating because our problems here were generally all fueled by greed and were entirely preventable.

[–] BetaBlake@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm sure things are so bad for you

[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 7 points 9 months ago

Based on your response- I’m sure you wouldn’t understand if I tried to explain it to you.

[–] Gekoloniseerd@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Is it really bad? Because the only news I read is here. Can you sum it up?

[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 16 points 9 months ago (2 children)

It's hard to sum up because it's hard to describe. Life in the U.S. on the surface is one of material abundance, congruent with our status as a wealthy nation. But that image is a serious headfuck because of how easily it can all be taken away from an individual: Even a relatively minor illness can plunge you into bankruptcy. You're totally dependent on a car to get just about anywhere. You need it to keep a job, but you could lose it to an expensive mechanical failure at any time. Or, you could get crashed into on the road through no fault of your own, and get plunged into medical debt, lose your car, and your job in an instant. There is no safety net for this. The police aren't there to protect you. In fact, they could come bursting through your door and kill you at any moment, maybe because they read the address on a warrant wrong, or somebody they want used to live there. Or, they could just take your assets by civil forfeiture because they feel like it. Police take more assets from citizens each year than nominal criminals do. Employers steal more yet through wage theft. Nobody will help you when that happens. People live with the threat of homelessness ever looming in the background, and if the system beats you into it, there's little societal help. Quite the opposite, many places in the U.S. are actively working to make homelessness a criminal offense, or even subject to summary execution in some places. Even when welfare programs exist, they're explicitly designed to be humiliating and hard to access.

To use an analogy, lots of people in the world live only a few steps up the prosperity staircase, and Americans are way high above them. However, we're not on a staircase, we can't just back down a few steps to a lower standard of living; it's been cut off. There's a certain minimum wealth standard enforced by law, custom, and environment. We're perched on the edge of a cliff, with the constant threat of being forced over the edge.

Even the people in the U.S. slightly further up don't understand the psychological trauma of this precarious existence, because their backs aren't up against the precipice. That's how the U.S. is such a paradox: It's a shit hole country for so many people, who live with constant fear and anxiety, but so many other Americans can't see it because they're just a little bit higher up in prosperity, so they do have room to step back down a little.

(But even then, the upper classes put in insanely long hours at work and spend large amounts of money to secure a wealthy future for their children, for fear that they might fall out of the upper class. I think that's pretty telling about what it's like to be working class in the U.S. that it frightens them so badly.)

[–] PopcornTin@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

All that and millions are sneaking across the border to join in the dystopia.

The part that gets left out of the border-crisis discourse is that millions, in turn, are sneaking back across the border, out of the United States. That's why the media calls them "migrants" instead of "immigrants." The net in-migration rate is fairly small, and in many years it's negative, meaning more undocumented migrants leave than the number that arrive.

[–] Gekoloniseerd@lemmy.world 0 points 9 months ago

Well, fuck that’s fucked. Where are the riots? Fuck m and burn m.

[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 14 points 9 months ago

Thoughts and Prayers πŸ™β€

[–] recapitated@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago

As a person who lives in the USA it's honestly pretty comfy, besides wholly embarrassing fairly frequently.

[–] Kayel@aussie.zone 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I don't know how joking you are, I hear this in the wild from Aussies a couple of times a month.

[–] LetKCater2U@sh.itjust.works 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

About Americans or Australians?

[–] Kayel@aussie.zone 9 points 9 months ago

It's usually: well, we may be a neoliberal state with the resulting capitalist issues but let's be thankful we're not living in the US.

For example, most recently I heard this in a conversation about growing wealth disparity.

[–] muntedcrocodile@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

We wouldnt say it if it wasnt true. America really is the worlds greatest third world country.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Americans became Americans because we had someplace to run to. Then we turn around and say "nope, your problems are your own."

[–] THEDAEMON@lemmy.ml -2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Woah imagine living in third world country , north korea , or a war torn county . Spoiled brats always acting like they got it worse not saying the usa doesn't suck or anything but it isn't at all the worst place not by a long shot

[–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 17 points 9 months ago

It's the other side of american exceptionalism - one they realise they are not the best, they start believing they are at least the worst.

[–] Harbinger01173430@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I live in a third world country and I have a crappy stressful job but unlike an american, my garbage wage can afford me an apartment to rent, pay the bills, eat well and save something or use it for entertainment. Unlike the American situation, since they can't afford to pay their mortgages, student loans, credit card debts, predatory corporations, insane house costs, disgustingly expensive medical bills and other bullshit living expenses. The American dream is dead and, crime and murder rates aside, third world countries allow people to have a less miserable life, in case you were not aware of how bad the situation was there.

[–] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I don't have any of those problems in the USA. It's all good in my neighborhood.

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