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[โ€“] Addfwyn@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have two. I have this one (lemmy.ml) as my broad-access instance. My other is lemmygrad, but as that is a bit more widely blocked I keep this one still. That one is used for most of my politics, and this one is my more general interest. It's kind of nice to have different communities died to different user registrations.

As to why those two in particular, I am a Marxist-Leninist so...yeah.

[โ€“] minthenry@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not seeing anyone mentioning lemmy.one and I'm starting to think I made a bad choice.

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[โ€“] Fenzik@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I saw people complaining that the admins were communists and I was like dope, I love those guys.

Plus healthy number of users (maybe too many actually) and local communities

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[โ€“] ratboy@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I signed up with beehaw first, but realized that they were defederated from lemmygrad, which I wanted access to. As I became more acquainted with lemmy and started looking into the "flavors" of the different instances, I joined lemmy.ml because they are unapologetic communists and won't defederate with lemmygrad.

As an aside, it's fucking insane to me that lemmygrad is so controversial yet there's crickets about exploding-heads and people are happy to be on instances that don't block them. Cool

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A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

[โ€“] Mavedustaine@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

[โ€“] TeaHands@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Sadly not, it's gonna be manual for the time being so if you're thinking about it it's probably worth doing before you have hundreds of subscriptions.

That said, I've gone through it once already on my other account and in the desktop browser it was fine, just involved opening lots of tabs and a bit of copy paste, took about ten minutes for a fairly extensive sub list. But I pity anyone trying to do it on mobile.

[โ€“] Hox@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[โ€“] aessedai@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

On the day I signed up, 18.0 was rolling out and lemmy.one was the only one that worked on Jerboa. I wanted to try out the different apps and see what worked well so that was where I started. I also have an account on lemmy.world but I don't think it's necessary unless there's a problem with lemmy.one. might still use another server if I can create my own community there.

[โ€“] moreeni@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I'm into general instances and also a long time user of Fediverse, so I picked the first one with not too many and not too little users (the join-lemmy page only showed 50 new users when I registered, damn)

[โ€“] frap129@lemmy.maples.dev 2 points 1 year ago

I joined Lemmy a few weeks ago when a lot of other reddit refugees were making the switch. A lot of the servers were overloaded, so I just went ahead and hosted my own. My instance is never overloaded because I'm the only user, and because Lemmy is federated I can subscribe to communities on any instance I want.

[โ€“] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago

lemmy.ml because when I joined I had no idea of how the fediverse worked. I'd change it to a smaller one but it really doesn't matter much I don't think.

[โ€“] Flicsmo@rammy.site 1 points 1 year ago

I picked Rammy for the name and the sidebar:

Just another Lemmy instance. We've got a cool mascott though! Open to everyone.

Why trust some Big Tech corporation to host your data when some random geek can do it? All thanks to the power of the Fediverse!

[โ€“] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 year ago

I was looking for a lemmy instance that would let me create communities, downvote if I wanted to downvote, and that would take care of troublemakers without being too overly restrictive.

I also wanted to ease the burden on the very busy lemmy instances that were being overwhelmed by the reddit Exodus.

It seems I have found a place. The SDF has a very long history of serving several communities in the internet and Linux world. I first ran into them decades ago, and they are still here.

[โ€“] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

[โ€“] gasey@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would you be down to tell me what the LGBT-positive and getting off instances that you like are? Asking for a friend ๐Ÿ˜‰

[โ€“] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.blahaj.zone and lemmynsfw.com :) Happy browsing

[โ€“] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago

The domain name. And the community seemed friendly enough. Now with the Reddit exodus, I'm glad I migrated to a smaller instance.

[โ€“] Grishaix@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] zav@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Literally just picked the biggest one to maximise the content I see

Rn it matters a bit, wont in a few weeks tho i think

I frequently see Stux on mastodon, and I think they're a good person so I decided to choose one of their instances when choosing a Lemmy server.

[โ€“] Menagerie@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[โ€“] zerbey@infosec.pub 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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I signed up with lemmy.ml originally, but then it was a little hugged to death. I couldn't update my community, couldn't post pictures or anything and I kept getting errors.

I went through the list that was only like 10 servers or something at the time, found slrpnk.net which had the vibes of the subreddit I run and found a new home for NoLawns. The guy who runs it seems pretty cool when I had to reach out to him so I've made it my home.

I did also just make a kbin the other day to see what that's all about too but with no app (yet there's a few in the works), I've stuck here.

[โ€“] SapphicFemme@lib.lgbt 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One of the few only lgbt friendly servers

[โ€“] omgnvq@feddit.nl 1 points 1 year ago

Are many other servers proactively anti-lgbt?

[โ€“] knobbysideup@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I added an account to a few geared towards specific community types. Then I can easily switch accounts and view local.

I'm considering standing up an instance for this type of thing myself.

[โ€“] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

[โ€“] SgtSilverLining@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[โ€“] Snowman44@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I saw a youtube video that said lemmy.ml was full so you can't join. I just picked a random one that wasn't ml so I chose lemmy.world

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[โ€“] legendaryq@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I picked lemmy.world because it was recommended and had a large userbase. I know Beehaw defederated from lemmy.world and sh.itjustwor.ks, so if you want to interact with that community, that could be a consideration against, but since the user population across all of Lemmy is currently increasing dramatically, I think everything's a bit of a moving target regardless.

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