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[–] Blake@feddit.uk 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You’re absolutely right. I don’t fold shit. If I need to wear a proper shirt then I’ll iron it when I need it, but usually just wear T-Shirts & polo shirts, so it doesn’t matter.

Yep, just give yourself permission to live out of the basket and put the basket on a shelf. It’s tidier and you don’t feel as bad about it.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like you. My husband has ADHD and he does the same thing. I fold my own clothes because it's relaxing for me, but no one should feel like they have to.

[–] Blake@feddit.uk 6 points 1 year ago

Thank you, and yes, absolutely, sometimes I go beyond this as well (for example, I’ll decide to pair up some socks) but it’s always an added extra bonus, not an expectation that I’m failing to meet. Psychology matters as much as anything!

[–] klemptor@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But don't your clothes get all wrinkly that way? I'm a neat freak and I can't imagine living like that lol

[–] CrabLord@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

In my experience, I don't care about wrinkles. Usually nothing is too wrinkly unless it's been buried for a while. Once I started putting the clothes in the drawers they were significantly less wrinkly.

[–] Blake@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

No, I mostly just wear t shirts and polo shirts and it doesn’t get wrinkly at all. It appears very neat until you open the drawer, and I’m the only one who does that anyways.