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That's one of those things where I'm happiest just not seeing or being part of that conversation. Those are unserious people and it's pointless to pretend you can have a serious conversation about those things. And even if you could, what is the value to me to wade into the nuance of when it's okay to find someone attractive when frankly it wouldn't matter—if they didn't act like aggressive horny assholes to anyone. I have 13 and 15 year old daughters. I don't really care who finds them attractive, but I do care who disrespects them, and that's not going to change when they turn 18, so again that conversation doesn't need my presence at all.
I'll agree that Bluesky is minimally toxic, but I also haven't gotten a whiff of those kinds of conversations here on Lemmy, either. The most contentious ones were in the run-up to the elections and that's just a tense time for everyone. And it's hard to let opinions we vehemently disagree with run rampant when the consequences for getting shit wrong are... well... gestures at everything.