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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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  2. The entire showerthought must be in the title
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    • If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
    • A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
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[–] Regna@lemmy.world 41 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

Most normal issues in a relationship can be worked on, and sometimes it actually helps to ask strangers on the internet to bounce off thoughts, fears or misunderstandings and gain a different perspective.

[–] abientot@reddthat.com 2 points 15 hours ago (6 children)

I agree. The problem is that internet strangers don’t personally know anyone involved, so much vital information and context will be missing. This is leaving aside the vitriolic, judgmental nature of those kinds of online spaces. Personally, I would never take relationship advice from anyone except close friends and family.

[–] dragnucs@lemmy.ml 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Most often you dont want your close friends and family to know about your problems with your partner for many reasons.

[–] abientot@reddthat.com 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I don’t know - I’m the type who feels comfortable discussing anything with my close friends and family.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 8 points 14 hours ago

Good for you!

Not everyone is like you

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